Recently, I was accused by a blog commenter of using a racial slur. Due to a pattern of misstating my meaning, I had said that he, "may need more ESL classes". Others pointed out that I might be unaware this can be a racial slur. Mr. Z felt I must be aware of his ethnic background due to his screen name. His screen name could be of Cajun or other native born American, South or Central American, Mexican, Spanish, Italian, French, French Canadian, origin, or he may have picked it because he liked it. I didn't consider it anything other than a pseudonym. The result was that I was "taken to the woodshed", the debate was derailed, and I was told I should educate myself about possible slurs against Hispanics. This diary is the result of my "continuing education." Here are a couple of other situations involving slurs and cultures/races.
If I was sensitive about slurs, my Dutch wife and I might not be married now. Why? Early in our relationship, we were parting for a few hours and she said, "Bye bye, schat." The Dutch pronunciation of the word "schat" sounds, to an American ear, very much like "slut." Was her comment insensitive? Of course not, she had no reason to connect the words in two different languages. Could it be taken as a slur? Sure, though clearly not a racial or ethnic one.
Read More