With the new movie Baby Mama out and Newsweek's recent article "The Curious Lives of Surrogates", the cultural gaze is on surrogacy in a semi-positive or at least ambivalent way. In my experience, most people who know anything about surrogacy have read news stories about custody disputes, usually in poorly thought out situations where haste was the operating principle. So it's kind of strange to see surrogacy pulled out of Geraldo world and plastered respectably on the cover of Newsweek.
When my husband and I made the decision to pursue surrogacy three years ago, neither of us knew anyone, in real life, who had had children via surrogacy, or had been born that way. There are several wonderful online communities where we got most of our information.
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