This is not an abstraction.
How do you feel - what do you do - when a person you have loved for 40+ years of your life says something that is so morally bankrupt that you can't get your head around it?
Long story very short but I got into a what I thought was a garden-variety argument with my Fox News watching Dad, but it took a very dark turn and I'm needing some support from like minded people.
Lots of tag-worthy words and topics came up - Obama, Sarah Palin, taxes, abortion, etc...the usual when you are having a life-long political argument.
Somewhere along the line, I threw out the topic of the horrible case of the murders in Arizona by the Minutemen/vigilante group, and the response I got was "so what - I don't know anything about that, but if it really happened, it's collateral damage".
I get smack talk - I get being a jerk just to piss off your "opponent". But I have never in my smart-ass life made light of the murder of a child.
And this was my Dad.
How do you deal with that?
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