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  •  Think of opium (0+ / 0-)

    The more you take, the less your brain gives pleasure from it. Now think of porn in the same way: the more you're exposed to super hard-core shit, the more you need to get pleasure from it. Also, don't kid yourself - young kids are being exposed to this shit. What do you think that does to them, and their ideas of what women want and their role in a real relationship? http://www.projectinterface.org/...

    •  who cares? (0+ / 0-)

      Porn does not portray a relationship and only the mentally ill would think it does.  It's also not about what women want, well there is some porn for that, it's about what men want.

      Men don't want loving sex, and any man that claims he does is lying his ass off.  Men want to bone the crap out of the hottest, youngest, girl they can possibly find and then never have to talk to her again.  They want to get their rocks off.

      Porn delivers that.  And short of going out to some sex clubs, that's as close as you are going to get to what you actually want.  Either that or getting a night with a porn star through their "escort service" and most of them do that as well.

      Nobody is stupid enough to think that you can get that in a normal relationship.  And most guys realize that women will not actually do what they want sexually and they have to settle for "making love" and other such nonsense.  Hence, PORN!

      Which is also why men in relationships never give up the porn.  Because that's still what they want.

      Porn is a good thing anyways.  Better guys get porn to see what they want rather than having issues with their wives in bed or chasing down tail at a sex club.

      If anything porn saves relationships.

      "Foolproof systems don't take into account the ingenuity of fools."

      by overclocking on Fri Mar 16, 2012 at 11:18:32 AM PDT

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      •  Speak for yourself (4+ / 0-)

        Your description of what men want doesn't ring true to me. Is that how you live your life, just banging women's brains out and not wanting to ever talk to them again? Really? Wow.

        Oh, and I'll bet you believe it is hardwired too. Ugh...

        Lamentablemente, por ahora, los objetivos que nos planteamos no fueron logrados en la ciudad capital. - Hugo Chávez, 1992

        by Anak on Fri Mar 16, 2012 at 11:47:52 AM PDT

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        •  I'm just honest (0+ / 0-)

          Guys that deny that are liars or just aren't able to get laid and lack the game to get away with it.

          One night stand throw away sex is great.  And sex with a fuck buddy is always wilder and better than sex in a relationship.

          Every guy I know that's able to actually land one night stands at the meat bars and clubs or able to have multiple fuck buddies freely admits this.  Guys who aren't able to ramble on about relationships and true love and delude themselves into thinking that's what they want... and then go back to watching porn wishing that's what they could have.

          hot one night stand > fuck buddy > relationship

          That's how sex goes.

          Of course, there is more to a relationship than just sex.  Companionship and other items as well.  But as long as we are strictly talking about sex, which is what porn is, yeah, grudge fucking rules love making is horrible.

          "Foolproof systems don't take into account the ingenuity of fools."

          by overclocking on Fri Mar 16, 2012 at 11:53:30 AM PDT

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      •  I agree with Anak (3+ / 0-)

        You're speaking for yourself. Not me. The man you describe sounds like a complete, self-centered, sociopathic asshole.

    •  That's nonsense (2+ / 0-)

      Porn is like opium? Do you watch porn and has it made you do what you just said it does?

      I talk openly with my friends about porn, males and females, and none of that "the more exposure to super hardcore" myth has happened to us.

      Lamentablemente, por ahora, los objetivos que nos planteamos no fueron logrados en la ciudad capital. - Hugo Chávez, 1992

      by Anak on Fri Mar 16, 2012 at 11:43:51 AM PDT

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      •  Porn is like opimum (3+ / 0-)

        except that it isn't, in any way like opium.  

        What senses do we lack that we cannot see another world all around us?

        by fearisthemindkiller on Fri Mar 16, 2012 at 12:07:03 PM PDT

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        •  Here is how it's like opium (0+ / 0-)

          Like opium, it's addicting. http://www.wired.com/...

          Like opium, addicts need more and more.

          "One of the key features of addiction, she says, is the development of a tolerance to the addictive substance. In the way that drug addicts need increasingly larger doses to get high, she thinks porn addicts need to see more and more extreme material to feel the same level of excitement they first experienced."
          http://men.webmd.com/...

          So yeah, it's nothing like opium, except that it is.

          •  You are citing homophobic garbage. (1+ / 0-)
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            "Jeffrey Satinover, a psychiatrist and advisor to the National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality echoed Layden's concern about the internet and the somatic effects of pornography. "

            Really you are going to site an opinion by an organization that believes this:

            "The right to seek therapy to change one's sexual adaptation should be considered self-evident and inalienable."

            GARBAGE.

            What senses do we lack that we cannot see another world all around us?

            by fearisthemindkiller on Fri Mar 16, 2012 at 04:53:57 PM PDT

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    •  I've seen 1000s of violent movies and never (4+ / 0-)

      committed violent crime.

      What senses do we lack that we cannot see another world all around us?

      by fearisthemindkiller on Fri Mar 16, 2012 at 12:05:15 PM PDT

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