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    I had tried for almost 30 years to have a connection with him.  Once I  had children and the cycle of abuse and denial invaded their lives, I let go.  Not with anger, but with a need to protect my children... as well as myself.  

    It was also depleting me, trying to connect with a man who quite frankly was nothing but abandonment.  

    He was very happy that I was in some way involved in the Peace Movement.  If anything he found great solace in that I had raised my kids in a non-violent, non-guilt/shame space.  That I hadn't raised a bunch of Republicans. :)

    But it was time to let go again after our brief reconnect.  He lives a life that is full of risks and criminal dangers.  I think he even realized that his presence was harmful to the kids.  

    I let go with love.  For myself, my children and for him as well.  Both times.  Thank you for your concern and sharing your story of strength :)

    "When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace." ~Jimi Hendrix

    by Damnit Janet on Sun Jun 17, 2012 at 12:45:28 PM PDT

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