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  •  You are welcome, though I am unsure if any direct (4+ / 0-)
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    triciawyse, TiaRachel, chimene, fumie

    action I took benefited you personally. I grew up knowing fear. It was a daily ritual, to list in my mind, all the things there were to fear.

    I grew up in a very conservative, repressed state, where your economic status determines your sexual caste more so than anything else, except maybe race.

    I grew up having to literally fight for every little thing, until finally I just didn't have a whole lot in me to fight with. I was just and am still, so tired.

    I sometimes encountered lucky people like yourself and my biggest complaint was that if I aired any grievances, any direct experiences, their first act was to undermine my words by making it clear their good fortune negated whatever bad things I had survived, and the value of lessons I learned.

    I had hoped my daughters might grow up as you did. I know that won't happen now, so I have pulled out all the old books and begun all over again, teaching them those harsh lessons I learned so maybe they can recount my tales instead of having to negotiate their own.

    I am grateful you changed your mind. We need all the help we can get.

    •  Everyone who believed and fought for women (2+ / 0-)
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      GreenMother, chimene

      helped to make my experience what it was, whether they affected me directly or not. Please know that not everyone who had an easy time of it would have discounted your experiences. I knew I was lucky. I just assumed momentum would eventually carry that luck to everyone else. Now we know better. Time to get to work.

      "The Democrats are the lesser evil and that has to count for something. Good and evil aren't binary states. All of us are both good and evil. Being less evil is the trajectory of morality." --SC

      by tb92 on Mon Aug 27, 2012 at 11:14:31 AM PDT

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