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  •  I've found that for my wife and I, the trick (7+ / 0-)

    is to spend our time not feeling entitled to special treatment and adoration from the other one and focus instead on being worthy of it and striving to give it.  As long as both of you are doing that, you will both be getting and giving exactly what you should be when dealing with someone that you love.

    Say that out loud to each other.  

    Advice from a very happily married man.  We married in 1999.

    Anyway, Mazel Tov.

    Picture a bright blue ball just spinnin' spinnin' free. It's dizzy with possibility.

    by lockewasright on Thu Nov 08, 2012 at 08:17:00 PM PST

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