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  •  The holidays are so damned hard! (11+ / 0-)

    It doesn't matter how far we've come, the holidays are that perfect combination of nostalgia and longing that always sets off a tailspin.  I "got lost" too. I found myself wishing my parents had never celebrated Christmas so I wouldn't have "good Christmases" to compare the present to.

    I feel for you and everyone else that had to wrestle with grief during the holidays.

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    by FlamingoGrrl on Mon Jan 07, 2013 at 08:05:51 PM PST

    •  "good Christmases" are a double edged sword (1+ / 0-)
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      my hope is that someday those memories will bring smiles instead of tears, but right now Xmas is really really hard for the exact reason you said:  mom used to do so much and make the holidays so wonderful.  i've lost that forever unless i learn to do it for myself, and so far I have not been motivated to do that.

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      by TrueBlueMajority on Tue Jan 08, 2013 at 05:29:37 PM PST

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