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  •  Well I don't know about you but there is no (3+ / 0-)
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    way in hell I would trust someone like that to respect the fact that red means stop (and stop right now).

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    by Throw The Bums Out on Mon Mar 11, 2013 at 02:49:39 PM PDT

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    •  I thought red meant . . . (0+ / 0-)

      well, never mind.  Makes me cringe just to think of it.

      Dogs from the street can have all the desirable qualities that one could want from pet dogs. Most adopted stray dogs are usually humble and exceptionally faithful to their owners as if they are grateful for this kindness. -- H.M. Bhumibol Adulyadej

      by corvo on Mon Mar 11, 2013 at 06:17:40 PM PDT

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      •  Well the way it works is sometimes you want (1+ / 0-)
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        to be able to say "no, stop" without actually meaning it so in such situations you use other code words to do so.  The "standard" is that red=stop, yellow=slow down or ease up, and green=i'm good or give me more.  Of course, there is a hell of alot more to it than that.

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        by Throw The Bums Out on Mon Mar 11, 2013 at 06:25:41 PM PDT

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        •  I thought you were supposed to agree on (1+ / 0-)
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          a "safe word," one would otherwise never use in sex, something like "walrus" -- well, okay, scratch that -- or "pineapple" -- hmm, better scratch that one too -- or maybe "filioque" . . .

          Dogs from the street can have all the desirable qualities that one could want from pet dogs. Most adopted stray dogs are usually humble and exceptionally faithful to their owners as if they are grateful for this kindness. -- H.M. Bhumibol Adulyadej

          by corvo on Mon Mar 11, 2013 at 06:32:29 PM PDT

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          •  Yes, that is how you do it but at least in the (1+ / 0-)
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            case of fetish clubs and such in most cases the standard is the regular old red, yellow, and green stoplight colors.  Obviously in your own bedroom they can be whatever you want but it is probably best to pick one set of safewords than having one set for public or semi-public play and another for in your own bedroom.

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            by Throw The Bums Out on Mon Mar 11, 2013 at 09:46:34 PM PDT

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            •  gosh, I'm so vanilla. (0+ / 0-)

              Small wonder the priests left this altar boy alone . . . or maybe they were all scared of my mom . . .

              Dogs from the street can have all the desirable qualities that one could want from pet dogs. Most adopted stray dogs are usually humble and exceptionally faithful to their owners as if they are grateful for this kindness. -- H.M. Bhumibol Adulyadej

              by corvo on Tue Mar 12, 2013 at 06:10:46 AM PDT

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              •  Well it makes sense, doesn't it? That for (0+ / 0-)

                something like that you would want to pick one set of safewords and stick with them, especially when things get to the point where verbal communication may become difficult (which is usually a VERY good thing)?  And since most fetish club rules specify the red/yellow/green setup wouldn't it make sense for it to be pretty common even in private as well?  Oh, and having a golf ball to put in their hand that they can drop as a form of non-verbal communication isn't that uncommon either.

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                by Throw The Bums Out on Tue Mar 12, 2013 at 07:06:26 PM PDT

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