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  •  not his kid (2+ / 0-)
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    he should have finished up, washed his hands and left the room, not run out to scream at the kid, the adult and whomever else was watching him have his little fit about someone might see his junk oh noez.

    This is HOW it starts when people feel they have a right to beat the shit out of "non-conformative" people.  "They MADE me do it, they weren't supposed to be there."

    The boy WAS supposed to be there, he was using the facilities.  The length of his hair should not be an issue in the 21st century.

    And we sail and we sail and we never see land, just the rum in the bottle and a pipe in my hand...

    by Mortifyd on Mon Mar 25, 2013 at 04:11:18 PM PDT

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    •  Total crap (0+ / 0-)

      You can't dictate proper behavior to such a specific degree.

      It's not how it starts, you don't know the guy and you don't know enough about the situation to make such ridiculous  claims.  

      The length of the kids hair isn't the issue, the guy thought he was a girl and nothing more.  I'm sure he's seen boys with long hair before.  

      It's called a fucking mistake, I'm sure you've been forgiven before.  Try it out sometime.

      Who ya gonna shoot wit dat homie, you'd rather blast an original instead of a phony, true macaroni, you don't even know me, and why does your gun say n****z only?

      by mim5677 on Mon Mar 25, 2013 at 06:23:44 PM PDT

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      •  Most grown-ups don't scream and (2+ / 0-)
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        holler at others when they're in a restroom.  

        At least not in my experience.  

        There's visible evidence of most guys taking a leak, washing their hands, and heading out the door.  It's brief.  It's functional.  It's necessary.  And that's basically how it works.

        Ben goes in to pee.  Some guy in there already thinks Ben is a girl.  But Ben is not a girl.  The guy chases him from the restroom and subsequently screams at his mother, referring to her son as an 'it.'

        That really sucks on the Adult Behavioral Index.

        •  Yes it does (0+ / 0-)

          but that's it.  

          Nothing about that says anything beyond the point you just made.  Everything else is just prejudice and projection, especially if we are not getting info from the guy who did the screaming.

          Who ya gonna shoot wit dat homie, you'd rather blast an original instead of a phony, true macaroni, you don't even know me, and why does your gun say n****z only?

          by mim5677 on Tue Mar 26, 2013 at 06:05:22 AM PDT

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      •  why are you so willing to stand up for someone (2+ / 0-)
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        who screamed at a child and a parent referring to a child as an "it" and think that's ok?  That's NOT a mistake.  That's being a freaking weirdo.  That's gender policing other people.  That is making a mountain out of a molehill - not the parent talking about the incident.

        And we sail and we sail and we never see land, just the rum in the bottle and a pipe in my hand...

        by Mortifyd on Mon Mar 25, 2013 at 07:07:28 PM PDT

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        •  Because (0+ / 0-)

          it's just not enough information for so many people to be so certain about who and what this guy is.

          If I had to rank people in order of who I think is the worst kind of person or what the worst thing you can do to someone.  

          This guy wouldn't show up.  He yelled at a kid, he didn't call the kid a name, he didn't hit the kid, he didn't hit the mother, from what she wrote he barely said more than 30 words and that's not a lot.

          If he is making a mountain out of a molehill, then what is a diary with 250 plus recs and comments?

          The guy has been accused of having a small cock, beating a child if they were older, being a weirdo.  Implications of murder and so on and so on.  

          They are both making a mountain out of a molehill.  It obviously is bigger to the parent than you are letting on as she wrote about a molehill, then someone copy and pasted that molehill and created their own molehill which obviously a lot of people thought was more than that considering the response.  

          Who ya gonna shoot wit dat homie, you'd rather blast an original instead of a phony, true macaroni, you don't even know me, and why does your gun say n****z only?

          by mim5677 on Tue Mar 26, 2013 at 06:03:33 AM PDT

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          •  normal adults do not scream and call kids ITS (2+ / 0-)
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            How do you not get this?  How do you not see a problem with this?  How do you not understand that this is not only not normal but not socially acceptable behaviour?

            And we sail and we sail and we never see land, just the rum in the bottle and a pipe in my hand...

            by Mortifyd on Tue Mar 26, 2013 at 06:08:29 AM PDT

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      •  hold on a sec, you GBCW'd Apr 3 2012 (1+ / 0-)
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        rserven

        So why are you here supporting the verbal harassment and abuse of a woman and child again?

        And we sail and we sail and we never see land, just the rum in the bottle and a pipe in my hand...

        by Mortifyd on Tue Mar 26, 2013 at 06:31:05 AM PDT

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