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    Don't do the friendship thing unless you can do it with romantic detachment (which may mean avoiding contact for a while). Otherwise, you may be setting yourself up for even more pain when he starts dating others, etc.

    I'm a terrible cynic when it comes to dating, sex, and love -- Atomised is one of my favorite books for a reason -- so ignore the next piece of advice if you find it too douchey: For the next half year, if not longer, get out there and "play the field" a little. Date lots of other men. It may have a distracting, numbing effect while time heals the wounds.

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