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    I think that sexuality is a lot like the Kinsey scale, with say, 1 being perfectly homosexual and 9 being perfectly heterosexual, so for most 1s, 2s, 3s, 7s, 8s, and 9s, it is what it is, no choice about it, you like what you like, you love what you love.

    Then there are those that run into the 4, 5, and 6 category.  They do seem to have a choice.  I know I did.  Some of us chose to identify as heterosexual, some homosexual and others refuse to make a choice.  I personally chose to identify as heterosexual, seeing as I like men just fine and it makes things smoother in this society, but there have been plenty of women I have been interested in and it easily could have gone the other way.

    So, what I am saying I guess, is that for most people it isn't really any sort of choice, but for those that fall into the bisexual category that find men and women fairly equally attractive, we got to choose...even if the choice was not to choose.

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    by Sychotic1 on Sun Jan 05, 2014 at 07:33:04 PM PST

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