So what if you were a woman, you'd "go through months of pain to save a life"?

That would be YOUR CHOICE, which is the whole point of the Pro-Choice movement. The big difference is that you're against abortion, so you'd force your opinion into law for everyone else. And the issue is very much one of choice. My body, my choice. It can't be any simpler than that.

But I honestly do not expect you to understand, for the simple reason of biology.