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  •  clothesline project (4.00 / 5)

    there is so much to respond to in your diary.  i think that a broad discussion on what is sexism and feminism would be a good thing, but it would take a long time to respond to each of your thoughts, since they are as you admit, not very focused.

    let me start however by clarifying the "old tee shirts."  way back in 1990 group of women got together and created "the clothesline project."  women and girls who are victims of violence express their feelings on tee shirts that are hung on a clothes line.  it draws on the metaphor (or is it a simile?) of "airing out one's dirty laundry."  

    back in the olden days (pre late 1970s), violence and abuse within families was something shameful that was not talked about.  women bore their abuse in private.  there were few laws to protect women and girls from sexual and domestic violence.  the few laws that existed weren't enforced.

    the premise of the clothesline project is that a victim of sexual or domestic violence uses the tee shirt to express whatever they are feeling about their abuse.  the tee shirt that you saw that said "rape = not good" was made by a rape victim.  perhaps not the most articulate rape victim.  but it was her expression of her feelings about being raped.  and perhaps the expression "not good" held some personal meaning for her in the context of her abuse history.

    the tee shirts are considered empowering simply by virtue of the fact that they exist.  victims of rape, domestic violence, and sexual abuse empower themselves by speaking the truth about their experience instead of hiding it away in shame.  by speaking out, they are proclaiming, it was not my fault.  this was done to me and it was wrong.  they are reclaiming their voices.

    every tee shirt you saw hanging their was made by a victim, expressing her (or his) own thoughts, feelings about the crime committed against them.  the value of airing that "laundry" in public is for viewers to pause a moment and take in the reality of the experience of those victims, to  notice how many victims are represented.  to appreciate the pain the victim has suffered and to value their courage in speaking out.

    the purpose of the tee shirts is not to empower you.  it's to empower the women who make them, to let other victims know they are not alone, and to encourage other victims to speak out.

    here is the url:  http://www.clotheslineproject.org/

    where women's words are valued and respected, Our Word

    by artemisia on Sun Feb 20, 2005 at 08:35:54 PM PDT

    •  excellent point (4.00 / 3)

      "empowerment" is a fuzzy MBA corporate-speak word that unfortunately has spread through a lot of lefty communities. A more accurate description would be "taking power." People who are raped have the power to control what happens to their own bodies taken away from them during that rape. By actively doing something about their environment, whether (far too rarely) pressing charges against their attacker, marching in a Take Back the Night rally, becoming a rape crisis counselor, holding a protest, or writing their thoughts and feelings down on a t-shirt and hanging it up in public, these people take back some of the power and control that was taken from them.

      Another function of the clothesline would hopefully be inspiration. As in, you walk across the campus and, seeing the clothesline project, really start thinking about rape and sexual assault on your campus (I know of three women who have told their TAs about being raped at my school this quarter alone) and do something yourself, such as joining the Students Stopping Rape or Men Against Rape groups on your campus.

      "There are no shortcuts to accomplishing constructive social change ... struggle is called 'struggle' for a reason." Ward Churchill

      by CAuniongirl on Mon Feb 21, 2005 at 12:06:27 AM PDT

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      •  Nice insight (none / 0)

        It's good to hear that I'm not the only person who thinks "empowerment" sounds a little fuzzy.  That said, I very much agree with your points, and would support and possibly even participate in (time depending) such activities on my campus and elsewhere.  I found the t-shirts to be a bit strange because they were given no context, no explanation, they were just put there.  With explanation I would find them more palatable, and an actual rally or other activity would also be constructive.
    •  Thank you for giving me some history (none / 0)

      I only wish they had done that here on my campus, as then it would have made a bit of sense.

      I'm sorry if I came off as callous in dismissing the display: I truly did not understand its real origin or purpose.  To me, they were just a bunch of shirts put up randomly at the place where I eat my food and drink my hot chocolate (I'm not a coffee person).  I figured they were supposed to make a statement, and that it was supposed to be "empowering", but I didn't know any of the specifics that you provided me with.  Thus, they seemed quite out of place.

      Thank you again, and maybe I'll get in touch with the group on campus that did this display and suggest that they also put up some sort of explanation along with the t-shirts so the thing comes off as a bit less austere.

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