Your quote: "But hurling insults at pro-lifers, especially Democratic ones, is contrary to everything that party building is about.  The party that wins is the one that gets more people who disagree with each other about very fundemental things to vote for the same person.  Please stop trying to drive us pro-lifers out with the insulting and unsupported accusation that being against abortion rights means being against women."

Please point to the insults I made.  I think if you accuse, you should provide the source of what you say.  

I am all for a big tent party that is not going to do away with a right to choose an abortion...legal under Roe v Wade...and the right to birth control pills...not just condoms and abstinence.

I don't think religious groups should be determining the issues of either party.  

And yes, many Democrats are very willing to give up the rights of women to choose their medical care, birth control, and to have an abortion.