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All I could do was make sure the dog was not mangled by subsequent passing traffic. That is all I did.
That and if I were to stop and think it through risk getting smushed too.
Shit, I had no vet training, not even the beginning of an idea how to render first aid to a puppy. It occurred to me perhaps too late to place my coat over the little thing for shock.
omigod..
Watch out for the giant ground sloths.
by cskendrick on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 06:39:43 AM PDT
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that puppy was someones baby. You have a great heart!
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by mango on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 06:49:07 AM PDT
by cskendrick on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 06:51:10 AM PDT
all about that. Living here in Mexico is very bad for the heart when you love the animals.
by mango on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 06:52:56 AM PDT
You'd miss it.
Cold and heartless is no way to want to go through life.
You hurt right now because it was a living, breathing creature and it deserved better than to be treated with the disregard. My suggestion is later on if possible stop by a shelter and make a $5 donation on its behalf and talk to folks there. It'll make you feel better to know there are people out there that do care and work every day to make a difference in the lives of animals.
by cwaltz on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 07:12:58 AM PDT
I saw a dog get hit once, and it was right in front of 5-6 kids standing on the sidewalk. I was in a far lane in heavy traffic and could not stop, and I cried all the way home.
Politics is like driving...if you want to go backwards, choose R. If you want to move forward, choose D.
by fireflynw on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 10:32:16 AM PDT
you'd be a Republican.
"Teach the children quietly, for someday sons and daughters, will rise up and fight while we stood still!" -Mike Rutheford
by Bulldawg on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 07:31:45 PM PDT
keeping our heart open to all of life's pain and beauty and staying positive and powerful. Sometimes life is so heart wrenching, I find it hard to function.
Be the change you want to see in the world.
by empathy on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 07:18:14 AM PDT
The Tin Man said, "Now I know I have a heart, because it's breaking." Sympathy and hugs.
by eru on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 08:29:47 AM PDT
The Wizard of Oz is such an important piece of literature.
You can't get away with the crunch, 'cuz the crunch always gives you away
by dnamj on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 09:51:08 AM PDT
You did stop. You were there. You shielded and carried the pup. No one else did.
What you did was a lovely act of humanitarian caring.
Sometimes all one can do is be witness and feel helpless. But witnessing and presence are worth more than one might think. I do it for a living.
You were that precious witness and that pup did not die alone with no one caring.
Mourn, yes. But please don't rethink what you did or critique yourself for not having done more. You did what you could.
Thank you, cskendrick.
"You can count on Americans to do the right thing after they've tried everything else." -- Winston Churchill
by bleeding heart on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 08:52:04 AM PDT
Geez...now I'm crying. And nobody likes a weepy old queen.
Thanks CS for sharing this. It always helps to inject a bit of reality--even something this sad.
Let your heart heal. I held vigil with my roomates dying cat. She took over for the final couple of hours, but that was a long day.
Remember, you showed your love and compassion the only way you could. And there's today's unwritten headline of the day: "Stranger protects dying puppy."
Go in peace. And thank you.
Well fuck it all, I'm still not leaving. I'm too goddamn mean and stubborn to be run off by a swarm of annoying insects.
by homogenius on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 09:54:49 AM PDT
comment, but, actually, one of my dearest friends was an occasional weepy old queen and everyone adored him. He was an absolute delight and he would approve of my calling him that or I wouldn't use the term. One of the most special nights of my life was his last night alive, which I spent in the hospital with him after having helped with his home care for several months.
Actually, in my experience, most people who tear up for tender issues have hearts of gold.
So I still like you!
by bleeding heart on Thu Jan 17, 2008 at 12:37:16 PM PDT
I live in the country so sometimes animals run out into the road. I've hit more than I care to think about but I always make sure the animal is dead and not suffering. I suffer every time this happens.
Sometimes I hate being human. We are so destructive.
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by TXsharon on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 07:06:42 AM PDT
At some times in the year, I'll see a new, dead raccoon on the road to work every stinkin' day. People drive too fast, don't pay attention. Lots of possums, too.
I was behind a car the other day, though, that stopped for a deer. I was happy to see that.
But in general, on my little five-mile commute, the carnage is horrible. If people would only pay attention...
Je suis inondé de déesses
by Marc in KS on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 07:45:41 AM PDT
It is people who are getting struck down by cars that never stop -- struck down in crosswalks, walking on a green light. The city leaders talk about how to "cut down" on these hit and run deaths and injuries, which in many cases involve the elderly, but it seems there is no viable way to do it (imagine that!).
While out one evening, Mr. Meerkat and I came to a corner just as the light was turning yellow for pedestrians. An elderly woman with a walker was caught in the middle of the crosswalk when the light turned to red. Mr. Meerkat ran out to help her (the cars were going around her on either side, and not slowly). He stayed with her on the center island until they could safely cross.
People not only don't pay attention, they clearly do not give a damn about life, including human life. Getting to their destination in the shortest time possible is the only important goal.
Things are going to get a lot worse before they get worse. ~ Lily Tomlin
by vigilant meerkat on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 08:26:50 AM PDT
Give him a squeeze from all of us!
by fireflynw on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 10:34:29 AM PDT
As if having the wisdom to marry our own vigilant meerkat weren't enough proof of that.
Who supports the troops? Leyla and I do.
by MsSpentyouth on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 11:43:10 AM PDT
Thank you MsSpentyouth.
by vigilant meerkat on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 12:49:36 PM PDT
by vigilant meerkat on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 12:52:50 PM PDT
is revealed in how they react to someone in need. Mr Meerkat is a very kind soul :-)
by fireflynw on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 03:12:24 PM PDT
He is unfailingly kind and caring. His patients (he's a dentist) truly love him, and tell him so frequently. He even makes housecalls for some of his older patients who can no longer make it into his office. He's very special; they know it and appreciate it, but that's not why he does it. He does it because he cares.
by vigilant meerkat on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 04:49:52 PM PDT
I refuse to own or operate any of those thousand pound steel and glass death machines.....
Sometimes the appropriate response to reality is to go insane. -Philip K. Dick- Economic Left/Right: -4.75 Social Libertarian/Authoritarian: -6.97
by Ubik on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 08:28:52 AM PDT
without owning a car. Now I live in a rural part of the country, and it's harder -- so I have a beat-up 91 Ford Taurus wagon that I use for essentials. About 10 months of the year I can ride my bike (it's five and a half miles to town), and do. But there are a couple of very cold, very wet months that I need to have the car.
I put about 1000 miles a year on it, at the most.
by Marc in KS on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 09:05:47 AM PDT
when I pass a dead animal in the street or by the side of the street. I'm a Buddhist. It's my way of honoring that life that's now been extinguished.
In Buddhist philosophy, every sentient being has importance. They are so like us, really -- like us, they are born, suffer pain, and die. When we honor them, we honor ourselves.
by cedubose on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 10:00:26 AM PDT
even if you were a vet. At that point the damage was already done.
The BEST thing you did for her was to pull over and be there for her while she passed. Perhaps her last memory was of you being there comforting and caring for her in that last moment.
I'm so sorry you had to deal with that today. But know that you DID make a difference.
Pura vida!
by malibu1964 on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 07:16:20 AM PDT
with this pup, that is important. My heart aches for you.
by Vera Lofaro on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 07:32:59 AM PDT
You did what you could, so don't blame yourself for failing.
Some things we're powerless to change, other things we can, so the importiant thisng is to try.
Take care.
When harmonious relationships dissolve, respect and devotion arise; when a nation falls to chaos, loyalty and patriotism are born - Daodejing (paraphrased)
by koNko on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 07:47:35 AM PDT
Speaking as a pet owner who considers her cats her children...I cannot believe that the person who hit that puppy didn't stop. That's truly low. Like monkeybiz said, thank you for stopping. Not many others would have.
"Sell not Virtue to purchase wealth, nor Liberty to purchase power." Benjamin Franklin
by Mewkey on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 07:50:10 AM PDT
What a devastating way to start the day. Thank you for your compassion.
It's time to impeach, dammit!
by Sassy725 on Wed Jan 16, 2008 at 08:38:16 AM PDT
wide narrow
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