Seriously. My husband bought me a package of lessons for Christmas (it gets hard to come up with new ideas after 24 years) and it's a blast...and not only is he going to lessons, too, but I took our 16 year old son to one of the group classes, and after seeing the college girls taking classes there, HE'S taking lessons too. Try to find a place that does social dance, with activities. The place we go has weekly Latin and Swing dance parties where students can go to practice with live bands.