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  •  I agree with you (0+ / 0-)

    They shouldn't give up their faith.  But they should discontinue donations if they truly do not support Prop 8, or they should voice their opinion.  Which is exactly what I'm doing by boycotting.

    I'm waiting to be written in The Book of Love. SGWM, 40, seeks VGL HWP....

    by Skylarking on Thu Nov 13, 2008 at 01:59:18 PM PST

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    •  But, you are boycotting a gay friendly business (0+ / 0-)

      because someone who works their tithes to a church that is not gay-friendly.  Bill Marriott didn't give money directly, and LDS, as far as I can see, also didn't give money directly to support Prop 8.  They did support prop 8 as did Catholics.  How far are you going to take this boycott?  And what do you want Marriott, the company, to do to end the boycott?

      •  Are they the only gay friendly business? (1+ / 0-)
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        You make it sound as if there are so few gay friendly businesses that we GLBT should be happy and just shut up.  And your assertion that LDS didn't not give money directly to support Prop 8 is contrary to AP and CNN.

        I'm waiting to be written in The Book of Love. SGWM, 40, seeks VGL HWP....

        by Skylarking on Thu Nov 13, 2008 at 02:39:01 PM PST

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        •  I can only find information that (0+ / 0-)

          Mormons gave.  I can't find any info that they gave money directly.  Do you have a link?

          I'm not saying that there are a shortage of gay friendly businesses.  I'm saying that boycotting gay friendly businesses who have employees that are not accomplishes nothing.  Marriott, the company, can't do anything to earn your business without violating the law by firing people who are Mormons.  Marriott, the company, has done what they can do to show that they are not the enemy in this fight.  Are you going to advocate a boycott of the Dodgers because Jeff Kent gave money to support Prop 8.  Kent gave his money directly, not by tithing, to support bigotry.

          •  If the Dodgers (0+ / 0-)

            as a group gave money to Yes on 8, I would boycott them.  You really don't understand the concept and purpose of a boycott.  Either that or you're being obtuse on purpose.

            I'm waiting to be written in The Book of Love. SGWM, 40, seeks VGL HWP....

            by Skylarking on Thu Nov 13, 2008 at 03:54:53 PM PST

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            •  Better analogy: If a Dodgers player (0+ / 0-)

              gave money to support 8, and if you were a Dodgers fan, then what?

              As God is my witness, I thought turkeys could fly.

              by ticket punch on Thu Nov 13, 2008 at 05:00:32 PM PST

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              •  Better Ananlogy... (0+ / 0-)

                ...If George Steinbrenner gave money to 'yes' on 8, would I attend Yankees games?  

                No, I wouldn't.

                Furthermore, if I worked for Steinbrenner, I would quit...just like I would quit my church.  Just like I did quit my job waiting tables in a restaurant I worked in during college after overhearing the owner refer to an African-American dishwasher as a 'nigger'.  And I never ate there again either.  And I convinced every one of my friends NOT to eat there.

                I didn't put the guy out of business, but I didn't support him either.  And before I walked out the door, I let him know WHY I was quitting, and that I planned to spread the word on campus to anyone who would listen to me.  I refuse to work for racists.  I refuse to do business with racists.

                And if this were about any other 'minority' population, you wouldn't be here making your inane rationalizations.  You would be saying:  Yeah, there are plenty of hotel chains out there.  And I'm with you.

                You're either being a contrarian for the sake of a good argument, or you're a completely unconcerned with the war being waged against the GLBT community -- and how it's being waged.

                My 'diaries' SUCK! But check 'em out anyway just to make sure.

                by 4kedtongue on Fri Nov 14, 2008 at 09:25:19 AM PST

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                •  I just don't feel comfortable (0+ / 0-)

                  singling out members of a religion for boycotts.  Marriott, the CEO, didn't support prop 8.  I can't find any evidence that he contributed one penny, despite his church's encouragement that its members do so.  He does send money to his church, which publicly and wrongly supports prop 8.  

                  I have no problem with boycotting orgs or people who supported prop 8.  In fact, I think it is a great idea.  I disagree that being a member of the Mormon church means that you must automatically be singled out as a supporter of prop 8, and, therefore, deserving of a boycott.  I think Marriott himself should be judged based on where he stands on the issue, not where the church stands.  People don't always agree with their church.  While you may feel comfortable leaving the church when you disagree, everyone does not.  I have never been a member of a church that I agree with 100% of the time.  Catholics use birth control way more than the church requires, and they just agree to disagree with their church.  All that to say, people do not always believe what their church believes.  A boycott should be directed at those who supported prop 8, not at members of any of the many churches who supported prop 8.  When you start boycotting anyone who is a Mormon because the church supports prop 8, it smacks of a different kind of discrimination and bigotry to me.

            •  Are you suggesting that Marriott as an (1+ / 0-)
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              organization gave money to Yes on 8?  If that is true, then certainly a boycott is in order.  Marriott is a publicly traded company and hasn't given any money.  Further the chairman and CEO of Marriott, Bill Marriott, also did not give money to Yes on 8.  He does, however, give money to his church, which supported prop 8.  I don't think I am being obtuse, I just don't see what you hope to gain from Marriott the company.

              •  Fine... (0+ / 0-)

       a nutshell, we don't hope to gain ANYTHING from Marriott the company.  Nothing.  We want nothing.  We do not want a place to stay when we're on vacation, we have the Hyatt for that.

                What does the company hope to gain from us?

                Well, I would say, bperk, if the Marriott Company wants my business, its board should have a little talk with its CEO...maybe ask him to consider stepping down and selling off his shares of stock because his very visible presence at the top of the company is starting to effect the bottom line.

                That's all.  Until then, I'll stay at another hotel.

                Is that ok with you?

                My 'diaries' SUCK! But check 'em out anyway just to make sure.

                by 4kedtongue on Fri Nov 14, 2008 at 09:33:51 AM PST

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                •  What you are suggesting is illegal. (0+ / 0-)

                  The Board cannot ask the CEO to step down because he is a member of the Mormon church.

                  Stay where you want.  I'd personally rather boycott those companies who gave money to support prop 8.

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