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  •  Depends on how the reward is given. (0+ / 0-)

    In my never humble opinion, if you say "Do this and I'll give you a gold star" that's a bribe.

    If you do something and get a gold star after, that's a reward.

    Grades seem to me to be in a logical consequence sort of category the way paychecks are.

    Tracy B Ann - technically that is my signature.

    by ZenTrainer on Fri Nov 19, 2010 at 04:27:04 PM PST

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    •  Seems lo me then gold stars are usually used... (0+ / 0-)

      as a "bribe" in parenting, based on your definition.  Don't think I'm as sanguine as you about grades, which seem to me like an unnecessary high-stakes ranking of ones learning that tends in my mind to discourage, rather than encourage the process.

      Grades are a whole discussion in itself that I would enjoy having with you and anyone else...*g*

      Cooper Zale Los Angeles http://www.leftyparent.com

      by leftyparent on Fri Nov 19, 2010 at 04:58:07 PM PST

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