I just want to say that I subscribe to the homosexual agenda. But I also subscribe to Newsweek and Spin, for what it's worth. Seriously, though, I am so tired of hearing bigotry masquerade as "values," hatred as "compassion." I'll be blunt: If you do not accept homosexuality, do not think that gays should marry, you are a bigot. You're not old fashioned. You're also not Christian. Again, you are a bigot. And an idiot. And I'm tired of people not calling things for what they are.
And let's spend a little time discussing the "homosexual agenda." Or the "gay agenda," whichever mindless Right-leaning idea you read about. These homosexuals - who (and I checked) are actual people and not a nameless, faceless, well-dressed mob - are apparently out to get special rights and privileges from the government. They want (gasp) to be able to marry and enjoy the benefits associated with such unions. They want (God forbid) to be able to visit their dying partners in the hospital, to make arrangements should they die. And they also want (heavens) to be treated with the same dignity the rest of us are afforded.
The nerve.
Why would homosexuals want these things? Why would they, for some strange reason, want to be on the same footing as the rest of society? Why? Why are they so in our faces with the "We're here! We're queer! Get used to it!" chants? Why do they push their radical, let's-all-have-equal-rights, agenda down our throats? Why would they stop with one single-sex marriage partner - why not marry their dogs?
If you asked any one of these questions without tongue firmly planted in cheek, there are several things you should know: This Web log isn't for you. You are a bigot. You are an idiot.
You'll hear the Right claiming to not be homophobic. They'll tell you they're live and let live (as long as you don't live next to them - especially if you're gay or black). They'll also tell you that, like them, most Americans agree that the "institution" of marriage is something worth protecting. Like homosexuals and like-minded individuals everywhere are - as seen in that hateful campaign brochure distributed last fall - out to ban their Bibles. Let's look at this confusion in depth:
If someone's religious rites don't respect everyone's basic civil rights, then something is wrong. They see it as "us" (for lack of a better term) trying to change their religious standards. But it appears to me that "their" religious views - views that not everyone subscribes to (different religions, no religion, etc.) - are being used to prevent someone from holding their basic rights.
Again, there's not an army of homosexuals on the prowl to ruin someone's religious rite. Let's say Ohio's Issue 1 (constitutional ban on same-sex marriage) failed or is somehow ruled unconstitutional. Your church could still refuse to marry homosexuals, because it doesn't have a legal obligation to do so. Do I agree? No. Could they? Sure. But I don't think your religion has the right to tell the state how it should govern a legally binding agreement.
There are two definitions of "marriage" being discussed here: Religious and civil (not as in civil unions, but the "marriage" that comes from getting the paper at the courthouse). How churches and theologians legislate the former is their business. How the government legislates the latter is their business. Never the twain shall meet.
If you don't like it that a church may in the future marry homosexuals in the religious rite, that's up to you. But it's not up to you to use your religion (one of myriad religions) to define how the state sees marriage. Because, if you do, you're somehow suggesting there's a state religion - something, if I'm remembering correctly, we fought back in the day to avoid.
Plus, why do we never see the religious marriage-defense roadblocks fly up when two atheists get married? Because homosexuals - like blacks and women before them - are easy targets for them to marginalize. Where does it stop? When will it end?
I'm also tired of hearing the vast red state populace complain about being preached to and looked down upon by the "liberal elite," as though we were a bunch of wine-swilling foppish dandies. Hey guys, until you get with the program and up your collective intelligence quotient a bit, get used to being preached to and looked down upon. Like a father scolds his petulant son, we must scold you for being so damned stupid. So hateful. So misled. If you're wrong, expect to be set straight.
Here's something else you won't hear in their anti-gay, manly posturing: They're scared. They are more afraid of "Will and Grace" than al Queda attacking their local Piggly Wiggly. They see Janet Jackson's nipple on television, see "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy" and are scared. It wasn't so long ago that the sight of a black person in their diner provoked the same response. Fear of change is a dangerous thing. Dangerous for those afraid to change and, even more so, for those seen as the "changers."
This fear has led many to develop a terribly misled view of homosexuals. If they're allowed to marry, they say, marriage will be ruined. Why, then, is the state that allows gay marriage (Massachusetts) the one with the lowest divorce rate? If they're allowed to raise kids, they say, those children will grow up mal-adjusted. Why, then, was it reported recently that children of same-sex couples are just as well off as those with mixed-sex parents? What are you so afraid of?
And you can keep your values. I really have a hard time believing Jesus would rather keep gays out of His church and ban abortion than feed the hungry, clothe the poor and cure the sick. Remember those values? You won't hear about those at your local WASPy mega-church these days. God is Love doesn't quite ring as true any more, does it?
America is at a dangerous crossroads: We, as a nation, could remain old fashioned, looking to a hate-filled past for our values. Or we could look to the future, embrace diversity as an ideal and move forward. If I were a praying man, I'd pray for the latter. It's our only hope.