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Burning Man

Fri Oct 28, 2005 at 05:43:32 PM PDT

Valerie Plame wasn't outed.  She was burned when the body politic decided to play with matches.   Rove called her "fair game" and Novak, like a threadbare circuit in an old house sparked the fire that changed her life forever. Even now, sitting tick-like in the bowels of the White House, I imagine Rove quietly savoring the freeper cries, the moral equivalent of pointing and laughing at the burned man.

"If the special prosecutor were honorable, he would be trying to nail Wilson and Plame and others for their scheme to bring down a wartime president through fraud ... that is, treason. ~ Coloradan
When you get a third degree burn, the skin chars or turns white.  The burn itself is visible in moments but it takes time, sometimes days, to determine the severity.  According to the WaPo, Plame knew her right away.

After her cover was blown by syndicated columnist Robert Novak in July 2003, Plame had no chance of working again in her chosen field, her friends say, and the strain of remaining at the agency has taken its toll.
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Even then, I'm not so sure she understood how bad it would be.  How could she?  I doubt she realized the acute pain of the initial article would be nothing to the ongoing trauma of being shunned in the halls, having people treat you "like a leper."  Wondering if you were on an Al Qaeda hit list.  And your contacts.  And your children.  Being accused of treason by people who don't know anything about you.

While the area around the edges of a severe burn cause pain, you can't generally feel a third degree burn because the nerves have been so damaged.  There isn't any swelling.  Wilson still goes to work everyday, just like she has for 20 years straight out of college.  She's eligible for retirement now but will not qualify for full benefits unless she sticks it out until she's 50. Third-degree burns are so deep that only the edges will heal and scars will eventually cover the rest of the burned area if skin grafting is not done.

Have you seen a burned man?  Face melted and indistinct, lips created out of nothing, a stub of a nose, agile but incomplete hands, buds where ears should be?  Have you sat down and spoken with a burned man?  Or waved?  Or done anything but pretend he was not there?  Have you sighed with relief when he chose another lane at the grocery store, or busied yourself not looking? Thinking anything but `there for the grace of God,'  because even that is too frightening?

Ten years ago, when they were in second grade, one of my daughter's best friends was burned in a fire.  As I remember, it started at the Christmas tree.  I know it consumed the house, her mother and her stepfather, a high school classmate of mine.  It took John almost a week to die of the burns he received rescuing his little girl.  Chloe was immediately whisked away to Houston where she slowly recovered and rehabilitated to the point of continuing with school four months later.  That summer, her family briefly brought her back to Tulsa for a birthday party.  I think it was a concession to her desire to be normal again.  Chloe wore compression bandages on her legs and arms.  She had lost most of her fingers.  She wore a wig.  She was eight.

The party was an orgy of Barbies and Polly Pockets and clothes, filled with overanxious aunts and grandparents.  The hovering made me feel a bit claustrophobic.  My daughter stayed quiet and close, but was happy to leave after the cake and games.  

Two days later, she asked permission to call Houston and I watched her carefully dial the phone before leaving the room.  I listened as she counseled her friend, the erstwhile third leg of her triumvirate, sharer of secrets and recess chum.  At first it was rather impractical advice about not caring if people stared at her missing fingers, a lull of halting second grade telephone babble.  Then something caught my attention.  "It's not your fault," my daughter said.  "I would have hidden, too.  A big fire would have scared me, too."

And I realized that this child who had been so strong and brave for her grandmothers and aunts, this tiny damaged creature was carrying a burden so heavy she could only share it over the phone with another little girl who remembered her without pity and without remorse.  And it wasn't her fault.  And it was scary.  And she shouldn't have to pay the price of one or a dozen contracture scars, the permanent tightening of skin that may affect the muscles and tendons and can limit mobility.

She shouldn't have to suffer degradation of her gross and fine motor skills.  She shouldn't have to suffer from an inability to regulate her body temperature.  To lose her mother.  To lose her friends.  Her beauty.  For Chloe was beautiful.  The victim of a moment in time, the poor choice of Christmas tinsel or a string of lights hung too near a handcrafted ornament.  

I think about Chloe from time to time.  About her life and her future.  About the price she continues to pay for something she did not do.  

Valerie Plame wasn't outed.  She was burned.  

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  •  This is unbelievable but (none / 0)

    ... I also knew the people involved in the fire in Tulsa. Not well, not by any means --- but John had been married to a close friend of mine from jr. high school and his mother was very close to another friend of mine.

    What an incredibly small world we live in.

    Sorry to sidetrack off your diary (which is excellent, BTW), but I was so stunned by this coincidence.

    James Inhofe (R - Exxon): The greatest hoax ever perpetrated on the people of Oklahoma. - Eiron

    by cookiebear on Fri Oct 28, 2005 at 05:48:28 PM PDT

  •  A little perspective... (none / 1)

    Els, I'm a poet and a strong believer in metaphor, but I'm having a hard time with this.  Your friend Chloe's story is really horrifying, and I hope she's got some happinessin her life.  The horror of the Valerie Plame outing lies in the way the administration lied and covered up and smeared people to get us into this war. But my sympathy for Ms Plame herself is not even in the ballpark with my sympathy for Chloe.  Ms Plame worked for THE CIA, not Romper Room or Greenpeace.  Let's see, what is the history of the CIA? Why on God's Green Earth would someone choose to work there?  She who lives by the sword etc etc. (I can see some point to the FBI. Sometimes.  They really did destroy the Mob with painstaking, decades-long investigations [and RICO]).)  Not saying she deserved to lose her job, but every hour closeted people are outed for their sexuality, people are wrongly fired for their sexual orientation, their politics, their weight, their race...I think Joe Wilson is a brave guy, and for a CIA agent, I bet Valerie's not so bad.  But my sympathy for VP, especially when you look at the scale of grief so many have to face (your average Iraqi or New Orleanian or Yucatan resident, for instance), is, er, limited.  I gently suggest you think about disengaging Chloe's truly tragic story from Ms Plame's. She may not get another gig as a spy, but I don't think she'll be needing food stamps any time soon (ouch! that sounded colder than I meant it to).
    •  Perhaps so. (none / 0)

      I'm more interested in the nature of the event which is almost instantaneous and the nature of the change which is profound and permanent.

      Sometimes the stories work together.  Sometimes they don't.

      •  Love your last line (none / 0)

        Reminded me of some line from "Little Big Man." The Chief, who thinks he's going to die, then doesn't: "Sometimes the omens are right. Sometimes they're not." Or something...
        •  With writing, you have to try to get to the (none / 0)

          truth, even if you're not competent enough to tell it.  Pulling on potent images is perilous.  Dr. Omed calls it borrowing a cup of meaning and distains it as something baby beats, militant femmes and lace doily poets do on the poetry scene all too often.  Since I am not poet, I tread the fine line here at Kos.
          •  Don't know who Dr Olmed is (none / 0)

            But I agree that we often to the truth THROUGH writing. Competence/incompetence: you wrote vividly from your heart, and conveyed a lot about your young friend.  I also don't know what you mean by treading fine line.  I'm a poet, but I'm also rabid and foaming-mouthed way more than I think is kharmically good for anyone or Helpful to the Cause.  I looked at your other diaries.  You write on interesting topics, and you have the guts to write diaries.  I just comment, so far, on what other people have stuck out their necks to say.  

            And "Pulling on potent images is periolous"--that's not poetic?  

            What's a lace doily poet?

    •  I disagree with you (none / 0)

      about the CIA.  Intelligence-gathering is a noble profession, and largely overlooked or vilified by the ignorant among us.  Valerie Plame and the others like her are devoting, sometimes sacrificing, their lives to defending us.  We have to honor that and hope that more Americans choose to do this job in the future.

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      by hrh on Fri Oct 28, 2005 at 08:06:06 PM PDT

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  •  This Diary is Scrolling Off... (none / 0)

    ...and I hesitated to comment. But I had to. Oklahoma is not kind to the maimed and deformed - I know this. In the Sooner state, Children who are missing fingers may get rocks thrown at them by other children - sadly, I know this. It's something you never forget - ever.

    One comment suggested you 'disengage' the little girl's story from Ms. Plame's. I disagree. The self-righteous cackling that Herr Rove and the other neocons must have done as they destroyed that woman probably sounded a lot like little kids throwing rocks at another - more visibly damaged - little kid. Of course nobody wins when this sort of thing happens. Whether it's little bullies taunting other, damaged, children, or powerful bullies going after a lower-pay-scale employee who happens to get in their way.

    One criticism I have of your otherwise excellent post. You sorely underestimate your daughter's wisdom and intuitive common sense when you speak of her giving,  "rather impractical advice about not caring if people stared at her missing fingers." That was the wisest thing any friend could have told another. God bless both those girls. I just hope for Chloe's sake she doesn't have to go back to Oklahoma. Unless it's radically changed, she may find - with a few shining exceptions - the remainder of her childhood a little hellish there.

    best

    john

    And thanks for posting this story.

    I support socialized water

    by jabney on Fri Oct 28, 2005 at 09:52:49 PM PDT

    •  Absolutely true (none / 0)

      I live in far eastern Oklahoma. That "meanness" remains in the wealthiest around here. but is mostly absent.

      It's so bad in the rest of the state, however, that I won't even go to Tulsa except to visit family and friends from out of state. Even people I've known for years, I don't trust to not zing me as often as possible or accuse me of being a Jew (which is one of the many whispered tidbits of gossip about me back there) or whatever.

      And Tulsa wonders why it's dying.

      James Inhofe (R - Exxon): The greatest hoax ever perpetrated on the people of Oklahoma. - Eiron

      by cookiebear on Sat Oct 29, 2005 at 07:53:31 AM PDT

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