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Just say, "I'm a Democrat"

Thu Aug 16, 2007 at 11:16:29 AM PDT

It just might work.

I just finished re-reading The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference by Malcolm Gladwell, one of my favorites. If you haven't read it, it's about social phenomenons like fads, but it also delves into what can cause sudden, large changes in the public space on everything from early literacy to crime and smoking. Gladwell talks about "The Law of the Few", who "Connectors, Mavens and Salesmen" are, and the translation that needs to occur between Early Adopters and Early to Late Majorities. The book is thought-provoking, and presents a challenge to readers: What change do you want to see, and what might cause that idea for change to "tip"?

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It got me thinking about the smallest, simplest thing we can all do that could yield an outsize postive effect on public life in America. We know that the vast majority of the public supports our ideas, and yet elections are still in doubt, and Congress has an abysmal approval rating. What's going on here?

In polls, only around 1/3 of Americans say that they're Democrats, and some of those people have very weak party affiliation. Many of them live in states where you have to register in a particular party, and so they're "democrats", but they may not feel invested in Democratic success, and may have no idea that they could have a voice in the workings of the Democratic Party.

So what can we do? My conclusion is this: We can tell people we're Democrats.

Self-Identification

I first stumbled over the "self-identification" problem in my "80% Democratic performance" precinct (that is, of those who vote here, about 80% are voting for Democratic candidates). As I canvassed the precinct for the first time, a long-time resident remarked to me, "We haven't seen a Democrat in years".  Well, since that resident was himself a "democratic voter", I was a little confused. A little more conversation made it clear that, in his mind at least, simply voting for democratic candidates didn't make him a "Democrat" - he thought that designation was for "party members" only, and that to be an actual party member, you had to pay dues, or go to meetings, or some-such. I think this sentiment is fairly widespread, though it is amplified here in WA state by the fact that you simply register to vote - you don't "register as a Democrat".

I only became politically active during the Dean campaign, but I've always thought of myself as a Democrat, because my parents were very matter-of-fact about their affiliation. So, I grew up thinking everyone "self-identified" politically. It took me quite a while to realize I was wrong.

I'd wager that most of us here on the site are some wonderful mixture of Malcolm Gladwell's "Few" - we're part Connector (people who participate in more than one community), Maven (experts) and Salesperson (people who are passionate and communicative about something). So we're well positioned to "tip" the great ideas we have.

But most of us are also "Early Adopters". We are part of the vanguard of the current resurgence of the Democratic party. In order for this thing to really, truly, "tip", we need more people on board. This requires two things: translate the idea, but more importantly "give permission".

Translate the Idea

We need to make this simple. We want people on our side, not the other side, nor wavering in the middle. So, we have to do that thing which is so hard for die-hard Democrats: simplify. We're members of this wonderful club, or family, or whatever, and all it takes is for a person to say, "I'm a Democrat". Self-identification, that's it!

Quibbles about policy positions and political strategy can take a back-seat. When someone's interested in that stuff, they'll ask. And they will ask you, because you're their Maven. But you have to get them on board first. And we can do that by self-identifying ourselves, and making simple, positive statements about that identification.

Give Permission

As we're all too aware, the right-wing has for years kept Democrats isolated and quiet. And they've done it with memes like "ugly partisanship", "wacky liberals", etc., etc. They even get mileage out of our natural politeness. How many times have you heard that it's rude to "talk religion or politics"? And yet, somehow, the right-wingers do it all the time, while we've sat back politely. Perhaps we thought they were being rude, but I believe we need to get over it.

By getting over it ourselves, we give our friends and neighbors permission to get over it, too. I do kind of laugh about using Gladwell's "giving permission" theme, since all of his examples are about bad behavior, like smoking, but I think it is appropriate here. If we want people to feel comfortable with expressing their identity as Democrats, after years of timidity, we perhaps do have to be a bit like the rebellious kid teens admire, who makes it seem "OK" to light up. That is, public and comfortable with our "democracy habit".

So, we shouldn't talk about ourselves in the third-person. If the Democratic party is doing something good, own it. Say "We've done this thing". If the Democratic party is doing something bone-headed, own your activist part. Say, "We're trying to get turned around on this". Don't say, "The Democrats are. . ."

And just sneak it into conversation. My favorite method is this: When a some news item is being discussed, I'll say, "Well, as a Democrat, I think. . ." There's almost always a way to drop it in without having to make a big deal about it. And when someone agrees with me, I'll attempt to include them as a Democrat, and then - if it's an appropriate situation - I work a little persuasion if the person says, "well, I vote for Democratic candidates, but . . .", or something wishy-washy like that.

Every person who goes down the street with the thought in their head, "I'm a Democrat", is one more person who will take right-wing attacks personally. It's one more person who might drop into a conversation, "Well, as a Democrat, I think . . .". And the more often people hear other people self-identify, the more likely they are to join in.

(I'd like to note that the DNC's "50 State Strategy" is definitely along the right track here - but on a macro level. What I'm suggesting is the interpersonal version: We need to make being a Democrat a lifestyle option for every individual person, not just a voting option in every state :)

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  •  So, what do you think? (23+ / 0-)

    Suggestions, reasoned arguments, etc. welcome!

    Oh, and "I'm a Democrat!" :)

    "Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful." -William Morris

    by Robespierrette on Thu Aug 16, 2007 at 11:16:30 AM PDT

  •  A small caveat (6+ / 0-)

    On the other hand, if you happen to be a complete jerk, tell people that you're a Republican. :)

    I do agree with the basic premise though.  Language wars cannot be won, but they can be lost.  For the last several years, we've unilaterally resigned; now's the time to get back in the game.

  •  I read the book some years ago (4+ / 0-)

    I tend to be an early adopter and a salesman.  I cautiously talk about politics to most of my friends, but don't show my fiery side to any but a few.  I identify myself as a Democrat, and clarify that I am a fiscally conservative, socially liberal Democrat and that I quit the Republican party as a result of their "Moral Majority" stuff.  I tell them that politics has no business in my bedroom or my personal life.  This usually resonates even with Republicans.

    There are bagels in the fridge

    by Sychotic1 on Thu Aug 16, 2007 at 11:28:15 AM PDT

  •  Agreed, Great Book & An Example (4+ / 0-)

    I was at a shower for my cousin last weekend. I knew most in the room were republicans. I was talking to the my uncle, cousin, and the husband of another cousin. It started off with sports and ended up with politics.

    Now Tim, my cousin's husband was by far the most talkative. He admitted he was a Fox News and Rush viewer/listener.

    It was quickly clear to me that (1) He didn't know I was a liberal Democrat and (2) His opinions about what a "liberal Democrat" is all about wasn't based not reality, but on how we are framed by Rush and Fox News.

    I said multiple times I am a liberal Democrat, as I always do whenever I talk about politics.

    I think it is safe to say he was surprised. I didn't want to take away his guns. I believe in personal responsibility. I don't want to outsource his job. I am pro military. I don't want Iran to get a nuke. All of this seemed to surprise him.  

    Now we didn't agree on all things, not even close. But I also think he realized we're not as "evil" as he thought.

    BTW: Blink from Malcom is also a really good read as well.

    •  Thanks! (4+ / 0-)

      I'll check out that book.

      And I heartily admire people who are "loud and proud" under less than perfect conditions.

      I'm merely faced with getting the 4 out of 5 of my neighborhood voters who already vote Democratic to take the extra step.

      I recently heard my local Legislative District Democratic Organization proclaim their joy that we have around 500 paid members. And we have over 100 folks turn up at most meetings. That's considered a win. And yet, we are in a solidly Democratic District (we're inside Jim McDermott's Congressional District) with way over 100,000 voters. And the dues are only $25 (and only $5 for student, retired or fixed income), so I think we could probably get a few more signed up. :)

      "Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful." -William Morris

      by Robespierrette on Thu Aug 16, 2007 at 11:43:38 AM PDT

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      •  damn straight (0+ / 0-)

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        Am I correct that you're in the 46th?

        The Legislative District Democratic organizations here in solid-blue Seattle are small and weak.  Sadly, we're basically insignificant in the overall picture of elections.  Even in partisan elections, e.g. county and state offices.

        We anticipate a significant increase in attendance and membership numbers as the presidential precinct-caucus season rolls around, though it doesn't seem nearly as frenzied in mid-2007 as it was at the equivalent point in 2003.  Our challenge, as always, will be to find ways to keep those newbies within the organizations post-caucus.

        The way to win is not to move to the right wing; the way to win is to move to the right policy. -- Nameless Soldier

        by N in Seattle on Thu Aug 16, 2007 at 11:54:26 AM PDT

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  •  I don't know many people here (4+ / 0-)

    but if they are behind me in traffic they have no doubts on which way I lean.  I thought it might be a problem but I haven't even had a comment so far.

    "I wish I were a pacifist. I am not a pacifist. I'm a peace lover." Archbishop Tutu

    by Cocker Mom on Thu Aug 16, 2007 at 11:33:30 AM PDT

  •  WA is different (2+ / 0-)

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    People in this state have this bizarre aversion to political self-identification.  It's almost a badge of coolness to disdain party labels.  Hell, even the state legislature -- elected, every single one of them, as either Democrat or Republican -- consistently argue against party primaries and party registration.

    I've often snarked that Washingtonians are more likely to be forthcoming about their sexual orientation than their political party.  Except that maybe that isn't really snark hereabouts.  Actually, I think they're also more likely to state their HIV status than their political party preference.

    Gimme registration-by-party, posted prominently and permanently at City Hall.  That's what they do in New Hampshire.

    The way to win is not to move to the right wing; the way to win is to move to the right policy. -- Nameless Soldier

    by N in Seattle on Thu Aug 16, 2007 at 11:38:02 AM PDT

    •  I agree WA is different. (1+ / 0-)

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      But when I lived in Iowa, people were pretty close-lipped about politics (and religion), too. That fabled Midwestern "decency", I guess. :)

      "Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful." -William Morris

      by Robespierrette on Thu Aug 16, 2007 at 11:56:23 AM PDT

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  •  I have never lived anywhere (1+ / 0-)

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    where it was out of vogue to be a Democrat, or even a liberal Democrat.

    I was born and raised in Massachusetts, and have since lived in Chicago, New York, New Jersey, and Paris.

    I've worked in places where Democrats were in the minority, but I've never hidden my affiliation.

    Except, of course, back when I was a registered independent and legitimate lefty. At that time, I did not call myself a Democrat.

    "Intelligence and stupidity have no limits. Unfortunately it looks like stupidity has won" -Arsene Wenger

    by brownsox on Thu Aug 16, 2007 at 11:41:40 AM PDT

  •  "Permission to get in the game." (3+ / 0-)

    This requires two things: translate the idea, but more importantly "give permission".

    Exactly!  People sometimes need, as a good friend likes to say,  to be given permission to get in the game.  And your self-identification idea is a great way to do that.

    rec'd

    dissent not only welcome... but encouraged

    by newfie53523 on Thu Aug 16, 2007 at 12:02:06 PM PDT

  •  Yes, exactly! (6+ / 0-)

    I especially like this:

    So, we shouldn't talk about ourselves in the third-person. If the Democratic party is doing something good, own it. Say "We've done this thing". If the Democratic party is doing something bone-headed, own your activist part. Say, "We're trying to get turned around on this". Don't say, "The Democrats are. . ."

    I've recounted this story elsewhere, but it fits in nicely here.  In the early 80's, my Mother, a staunch liberal Democrat, became furious with the republican party for not only cowtowing to the moral majority/religious right and co-opting God, but also for co-opting the American flag.  Mom thought people needed to know that Democrats love our country and our flag.  And she thought everyone, including Democrats, needed to know that neither the American flag or God were or should be considered symbols of the republican party.

    So she began buying and wearing American flag pins.  Mom was always very engaging and would talk with anyone anywhere, but during this time she began initiating conversations with people in checkout lines, on buses, at churches, in art class, etc. by pointing to her pin and asking, "Do you know why I'm wearing this?"  When the person, predictably, would shake his or her head, often looking somewhat concerned, Mom would say, "Because I am a liberal Democrat."  Often including the statement "and I believe in God."

    I have started wearing the flag pins and telling others it's because I am a liberal Democrat.  I am not religious so I don't include the belief in God.  However, not being as brave (yet) as my Mother, I have only been doing this to actual democrats.  It has been interesting.  When I wear my (her) pins to democratic party gatherings, I get many looking at me askance, as though a secret republican has entered their midst.  

    You are right, Robespierrette.  We must reclaim the use of the name Democrat - not only by working to get good Democrats elected but by using the name and being proud of it.  And then others will follow.

  •  Atheist (2+ / 0-)

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    I also try to slip in somewhere that I'm an atheist.  I like to know who I'm talking to; I assume others feel the same.

    We're all just monkeys burning in hell. SmokeyMonkey.org

    by smokeymonkey on Thu Aug 16, 2007 at 03:14:39 PM PDT

    •  I'm a lapsed Catholic. . . (2+ / 0-)

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      TrueBlueMajority, smokeymonkey

      . . .married to an atheist.

      When my daughter asks about Heaven or angels, or whatever thing she's seen in a movie or cartoon, I just say, "yes, dear, some people believe that. . .", and then tell her some of the other beliefs that people hold in that direction.

      Hopefully, this will help her keep her mind open.

      "Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful." -William Morris

      by Robespierrette on Thu Aug 16, 2007 at 06:19:44 PM PDT

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      •  "yes, some people believe that..." (1+ / 0-)

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        is a very gentle and neutral way to educate children about the wide variety of faiths and philosophies without implying they they have to believe it too.

        nice phrasing.

        Politics is like driving. To go backward, put it in R. To go forward, put it in D.
        76 days until the '08 elections. Let's paint the country BLUE!

        by TrueBlueMajority on Fri Aug 17, 2007 at 09:12:57 AM PDT

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  •  But do people feel they are heard? (1+ / 0-)

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    I'm very sympathetic to this concept of simply saying "I'm a Democrat" -- and in fact I do a fair amount of that -- but I think what holds a lot of people back is that there really aren't a lot of concrete local activities which help people feel engaged with politics.  It's very much a TV spectacle for them.

    Religion has a lot of power these days (really at any time historically) because of the way organized religion puts people into common activities and helps them form relationships with others in the community.  

    It seems to me we need to recover our sense of what the Democratic Party means at the local level.  What does a Democrat do outside the voting booth?  The only activities I've really seen are: precinct walking, phone banking and voter registration tabling.  All activities which make a large number of people really uncomfortable.  Not everyone considers those activities "fun".

    And don't tell me they "write checks" or I'll start banging my head on my keyboard ;)

  •  I'm loud and proud too (0+ / 0-)

    and I do live in WA state--Olympia.  Everywhere I have lived has been pretty darn liberal--Portland, Berkeley, Arcata, and now Olympia.  But I'd be just as outspoken anywhere and my bumperstickers show it too: "draft college republicans," "scientists against Bush," etc.

  •  I love your diary (2+ / 0-)

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    TrueBlueMajority, jsyaruss

    I'm a Christian, and I do this all the time. I come right out and challenge people every day. "As a Christian, I find this war objectionable. How do you stand?"

    We can do the same thing with party. " Hi, I'm a Democrat, how do feel about the way the world is going under our current leadership?

    Great diary, just great.

    •  it's easier for me to say "as a Christian..." (0+ / 0-)

      maybe I should say "as a liberal Christian" or "as a progressive Christian" and see how that goes over.

      Politics is like driving. To go backward, put it in R. To go forward, put it in D.
      76 days until the '08 elections. Let's paint the country BLUE!

      by TrueBlueMajority on Fri Aug 17, 2007 at 09:14:05 AM PDT

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  •  I'm a PARTISAN Dem and a BLEEDING HEART lib (0+ / 0-)

    I tell everybody! I haven't decided yet if I use the labels as excuses for my beliefs or to reinforce them...

    Most of the time, people look at me as if to say "well that explains a lot" but then when I ask them their opinions, they discover that they're not too different from me.

    My favorite part is when I ask them, "so why aren't YOU a partisan democrat..." or "You sure sound like a liberal to me!"

    Labels have been used against us, but labels can also be used to bring us together is we reclaim them and use them as our own!

    ---

    Impeach... pretty please?

  •  I am a Democrat and proud of it, but (0+ / 0-)

    I re-registered as a Democrat because of Howard Dean.  I had been registered Independent (although voting 99% Dem) my entire voting life, but HBD encouraged me to self-identify as a proud Democrat for the first time.

    However, my job makes it tricky for me to talk politics using party labels.  I do talk a lot about progressive themes and values and the Republicans around me certainly know I am on the blue team, but openly referring to myself as a Democrat might bring the IRS down on the non-profit I work for.

    I suppose I could work it into casual conversations with strangers though.  I'll experiment with it and get back to you.

    Go public with the democracy habit!  It's still rebellious and cool!

    Politics is like driving. To go backward, put it in R. To go forward, put it in D.
    76 days until the '08 elections. Let's paint the country BLUE!

    by TrueBlueMajority on Fri Aug 17, 2007 at 09:09:49 AM PDT

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