It's no joke. There's nothing harder for a young woman to deal with... especially a girl who comes from a religious backgroud. Reality rearing its ugly head in the "perfect" family. I know this senario. I know this reality. And it is not funny.
Kids do stupid things. They drink... they swear... they do drugs... they party... and yes, they have sex. I know this because I did it and I know people who did it as well... especially girls. I had unprotected pre-marital sex with many girls.
And sometimes, accidents happen. Especially amongst the foolish young.
Should the parents bare the blame for the reckless behaviour of their children? Seriously, have any of you ever had unprotected, premarital sex against the wishes of your parents. I can tell you one thing: I HAVE. I was too young and too stupid to know any better. An Edward J. Almos video in health class illustrating how to put a condom on a banana did not convince me.
And I'll bet it wouldn't have changed your mind either.
So even if you see hypocrisy in the parents of a teen pregnancy, please consider what you have done in your lifetime and try to understand what it is like to be in that situation.
And get a fucking grip.