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Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 05:08:21 PM PDT

The very first time that I attended a political protest it was accidental.  I was in first grade and my parents brought the 5 kids to the State House in Concord, New Hampshire.  We joined up with my father's 8 brothers and sisters, and all of my cousins, to attend a ceremony for my grandmother who was being awarded Mother of the Year.

While we were waiting, there was a sit in taking place with a group of college kids.  They were singing songs so I zipped over and sat down with them.  I remember singing Woody Guthrie's anthem This Land is Your Land.  I remember that they were kind to me and that my aunts and uncles were appalled.  I remember that my parents were fine with it.

I don't play an instrument and can't carry a tune to save my life but I have always loved political songs.  They have gotten me through bleak times and inspired me to keep hoping.  I have a long list of the songs I love and I'll bet that you do also.

The end of This Land is Your Land is the part that always gets me.  I can picture Woody Guthrie looking out at it all.

In the shadow of the steeple I saw my people,
By the relief office I seen my people;
As they stood there hungry, I stood there asking
Is this land made for you and me?

Nobody living can ever stop me,
As I go walking that freedom highway;
Nobody living can ever make me turn back
This land was made for you and me.

In my teens I listened to a lot of CSN&Y, Joan Baez, Neil Young solo, Bob Dylan and Phil Ochs.  This was in the late 70s and most of the songs I was listening to were released a decade before.  I saw Bonnie Raitt in multiple anti-nuke outdoor concerts.

I loved this Doobie Brothers song when it came out 1976 and still do.  I made them play it at my wedding reception in 1994 and everyone thought I was nuts.  

Taking it To the Streets
You don't know me but I'm your brother.
I was raised here in this living hell.
You don't know my kind in your world.
Fairly soon the time will tell.

You, telling me the things you're gonna do for me.
I ain't blind and I don't like what I think I see.
Takin' it to the streets, takin' it to the streets,
no more need for runnin', takin' it to the streets.

I discovered the Women's Music scene in the 80's and happily spent time buying albums and going to concerts.  The songs were almost always political and many gave me strength during a time when it seemed I was the only one who saw what Reagan was doing.

Ella's Song by Sweet Honey in the Rock

Until the killing of Black men, Black mothers’ sons
Is as important as the killing of White men, White mothers’ sons

We who believe in freedom cannot rest
We who believe in freedom cannot rest until it comes
...
Not needing to clutch for power, not needing the light just to shine on me
I need to be just one in the number as we stand against tyranny

We who believe in freedom cannot rest
We who believe in freedom cannot rest until it comes

Struggling myself don’t mean a whole lot I come to realize
That teaching others to stand up and fight is the only way my struggle survives

It Could have been Me by Holly Near
One night in Oklahoma Karen Silkwood died
Because she had some secrets that big companies wanted to hide
There's talk of nuclear safety and there's talk of national pride
But we all know it is a death machine and that's why Karen died

It could have been me, but instead it was you
So I'll keep doing the work you were doing as if I were two
I'll be a student of life, a singer of songs
A farmer of food and a righter of wrongs
It could have been me, but instead it was you
And it may be me dear sisters and brothers
Before we are through
But if you can work for freedom
Freedom, freedom, freedom
If you can work (live, die, sing) for freedom I can too

Testimony by Ferron
There's godlike
And warlike
And strong
Like only some show
And there's sad like
And madlike
And had
Like we know
But by my life be I spirit
And by my heart be I woman
And by my eyes be I open
And by my hands be I whole

The Ones Who Aren't Here music and lyrics by John Calvi, sung by Meg Christian
Telling myself
and the family,
my friends and the folks on the job,
one by one
and it's never been easy
and me and everyone changed.
The hugs and the tears
when they show you their hearts
and some never speak again.
Every pot off the wheel
can't bear the kiln,
every love can't bear the pain.
So let's pass a kiss
and a happy sad tear
and a hug the whole circle round
for the ones who aren't here
for the hate and the fear
for laughter, for struggle, for life.
Let's have a song here
for me and for you
and the love that we cannot hide.
And let's have a song
for the ones who aren't here
and won't be coming out tonight

I was never a big fan of the Moody Blues.  They were in that category of guy music to me.  I first heard their song The Question during the reign of Reagan despite it being released in 1970.  And that hooked me for good.

Why do we never get an answer
When we're knocking at the door?
With a thousand million questions
About hate and death and war.

It's where we stop and look around us
There is nothing that we need.
In a world of persecution
That is burning in it's greed.

Why do we never get an answer
When we're knocking at the door?
Because the truth is hard to swallow
That's what the wall of love is for.

By the late 80s I was starting to sober up and was looking for songs that expressed both my rage at what had happened to this country and my hopes for a new beginning for me and the country.  I listened to a variety of music but was totally enamored with U2 for the mix of politics, spirituality, and emotions.

Pride (In The Name Of Love)
One man come in the name of love
One man come and go.
One man come he to justify
One man to overthrow.

In the name of love
What more in the name of love.
In the name of love
What more in the name of love.

One man caught on a barbed wire fence
One man he resist
One man washed up on an empty beach
One man betrayed with a kiss.

In the name of love
What more in the name of love.
In the name of love
What more in the name of love.

Early morning, April four
Shot rings out in the Memphis sky.
Free at last, they took your life
They could not take your pride.

I also wanted songs that seemed to speak my emotions.  I needed songs that gave me hope for myself and the world in a time of personal despair.

Higher Love by Steve Winwood
Things look so bad everywhere
In this whole world, what is fair?
We walk blind and we try to see
Falling behind in what could be...

Bring me a higher love
Bring me a higher love
Bring be a higher love
I could rise above on a higher love

Tracy Chapman is a local favorite of mine.  Although she no longer lives in the metro Boston area, she did attend Tufts and used to play for change in Harvard Square and in the T stations.  Many of her songs mention poverty.  My favorite of these is from her first album, released in 1988 at the tail end of the Reagan years.

Talkin' Bout a Revolution
Don't you know
They're talkin' bout a revolution
And it sounds like a whisper
While they're standing in the welfare lines
Crying at the doorsteps of those armies of salvation
Wasting time in the unemployment lines
Sitting around waiting for a promotion
Poor people gonna rise up
And get their share

The Indigo Girls have so many songs that really capture how I feel on a variety of issues.  In the very beginning of my current career, some of their songs made it possible for me to hang in there and learn what I needed to learn.  This one is one of my favorite voting songs.

Let It be Me
well the world seems spent
and the president
has no good idea
of who the masses are
well i'm one of them
and i'm among friends
we're trying to see beyond
the fences in our own backyards
i've seen the kingdoms blow
like ashes in the winds of change
but the power of truth
is the fuel for the flame
so the darker the ages get
there's a stronger beacon yet
let it be me
(this is not a fighting song)
let it be me
(not a wrong for a wrong)
let it be me
if the world is night
shine my life like a light

Many Irish songs throughout time have been, and still are, about political issues.  My very favorite I heard at the Boston area Irish Festival several years back.  It took me forever to track down the song because it was only recently released on records distributed to America.  I know it from Irish singer Frances Black.  She sings it acappella and it is haunting.

Legal Illegal by Ewan McColl, sung by Frances Black  
It's illegal to rip off a payroll,
It's illegal to hold up a train,
But it's legal to rip off a million or two,
That comes from the labour that other folk do,
To plunder the many on behalf of the few,
Is a thing that is perfectly legal.

It's illegal to kill off your landlord
Or to trespass upon his estate
But to charge a high rent for a slum is O.K.
To condemn two adults and three children to stay
In a hovel that's rotten with damp and decay
It's a thing that is perfectly legal.
...
It's illegal to kill off your missus,
Or put poison in your old man's tea,
But poison the river's the seas or the skies,
And poison the minds of a nation with lies,
It's all in the interest of free enterprise,
Nonetheless it's perfectly legal.

I was also introduced to the band Black 47, New York based band of Irish expats, through the Irish Festival.  They have a fine mix of political tunes, about Ireland and about here.

Paul Robeson (Born to Be Free)
You can call me a traitor but I love my country
And I will not sell out it because of your hypocrisy
I refuse to hide behind the Fifth, I've no fear of honesty
You always know exactly where I am, so why don't you just
Come on over here and get me
You can tap my phone but there's one thing you will never hear
'Cause the drumbeat of freedom wasn't meant for your slaves' ears
I'll never turn my back on my comrades and my friends
The poor and the dispossessed, the women and the men
The great are only great 'cause we're down on our knees
Rise up, my brothers and sisters, we were born to be free
Born to be free

The Dropkick Murphys are a local band that play a number of political songs with great passion.  They formed in a city where I spent years hanging with friends and drinking coffee every day for years.  They do a great many union songs and they recently wrote one for a soldier in Iraq who liked their music.

Do or Die
The once steel tough fabric of the union man
Was sold and bartered away
Fed to the money wolves in the Reagan years,
Caught adrift in greedy Nineties' days
So inside this song is our rally cry
Your dreams are in danger,
and "We Must Rise"
Our time has come we are under the gun
"It's Do Or Die"

Last Letter Home
Hey Melissa it's me don't be afraid
I'm in good hands I'm gonna be home soon
It's time to watch the children grow up
I wanna be more than a voice on the phone

Thanks Ma I got your package today
I love "The Fields Of Athenry"
I swear I want 'em to play that song on the pipes
At my funeral when I die

I stand alone in the distance
And the foreground slowly moves

"We regret to inform you that on January 28th Sgt. Andrew
Farrar died while serving his country in the Al-Anbar province
of Iraq words cannot convey our sorrow"

When there's nothing on the horizon
You've got nothing left to prove

If I lead will you follow?

So what do you listen to when you're in the mood for political songs?  What's your happy story this week?

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  •  Tips for not quitting (26+ / 0-)

    when the diary wouldn't post 3 times in a row.  I had to open a whole new diary and cut and paste the other one in.  Thank you for being patient.

    Here's some simple advice: Always be yourself. Never take yourself too seriously. And beware of advice from experts, pigs, and members of Parliament. Kermit

    by sobermom on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 05:10:05 PM PDT

  •  Ferron: (7+ / 0-)

    I rebuilt my voice based on Ferron...singing along.

    Friday Philosophy is open.  Link in the .sig.

    Robyn

    •  I have always loved Ferron (2+ / 0-)

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      from the first time I heard her.  When I need a lift I always play Misty Mountain.  Her follow up to Ain't Life a Brook, I Never Was to Africa is also haunting.

      I think she was my favorite to listen to because I love her voice and her lyrics are poetry.  She was fun in concert also.  That was back in the days when women promoters were booking women in the venues because the men refused.  I saw so many wonderful musicians in small cozy concerts.  They were affordable and really comfortable to attend.

      I'm glad to see women getting more airplay and decent bookings.  But I'll always miss the days of that small supportive community.  It was fun.

      Here's some simple advice: Always be yourself. Never take yourself too seriously. And beware of advice from experts, pigs, and members of Parliament. Kermit

      by sobermom on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 05:37:32 PM PDT

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  •  Four songs by John Trudell (8+ / 0-)

    here.

    I just love his songs.

    It does not take many words to tell the truth. - Chief Joseph - Nez Perce

    by Gabriele Droz on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 05:20:55 PM PDT

  •  Everybody Knows. (6+ / 0-)

    I love this one.

    "Ancora Imparo." ("I am still learning.") - Michelangelo, Age 87

    by Dreaming of Better Days on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 05:22:24 PM PDT

  •  Pete Seeger - Big Muddy (9+ / 0-)

    and my happy story is this: Thank you, thank you, thank you for posting a not-candidate related diary. Today has been AW-FUL!

  •  My Main Man (8+ / 0-)

    I can't find anything political by him because Universal won't allow embedding but who need politics when you've got vintage Cougar.

  •  my Rock Revolution playlist, of course (8+ / 0-)

    Hmmm.... My iPod has both a Rock Revolution and a Folk Revolution playlist on it so that I'm prepared for either mood. I shuffle them regularly.

    Currently, the first six on Rock Revolution:

    All You Fascists Bound to Lose, Billy Bragg & Wilco
    Short Memory, Midnight Oil
    Have You Had Enough?, Ricki Lee Jones
    The Outsiders, R.E.M.
    The Revolution Starts Now, Steve Earle
    Not Ready to Make Nice, Dixie Chicks

    on the Folk Revolution list, we have:

    Oppositional Defiant Disorder, David Rovics
    Joe Hill, Arlo Guthrie & Pete Seeger
    The Weary Song, The Strawbs
    O Mary Don't You Weep, Springsteen
    I Ain't Marchin' Anymore, Phil Seeger
    Two Good Arms, Holly Near & Ronnie Gilbert

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    by kainah on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 05:30:41 PM PDT

    •  Phil Seeger??????? (4+ / 0-)

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      Uh, correction, that should be Phil OCHS singing I Ain't Marchin' Anymore.

      Although Pete Seeger probably also sings it and, for all I know, Pete has/had a brother named Phil who was very fond of it as well.

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      by kainah on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 05:34:28 PM PDT

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    •  Thanks for the list (1+ / 0-)

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      I'm definitely more of a folk music type so it's good to have a rock list too.

      Here's some simple advice: Always be yourself. Never take yourself too seriously. And beware of advice from experts, pigs, and members of Parliament. Kermit

      by sobermom on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 06:09:45 PM PDT

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      •  well..... (1+ / 0-)

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        It's not always easy to separate them, of course, but it got a little jarring when Holly Near or Pete Seeger ended up against Midnight Oil or Pearl Jam so I tried. My rock revolution playlist lasts 7 hours and has 101 songs. It includes stuff from a number of the groups you mention, though, like Black 47, Tracy Chapman, and CSN&Y. And a number of groups end up on both lists with different songs.

        One of the female greats I think you missed, though:  Joan Baez, of course.

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        by kainah on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 06:35:34 PM PDT

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        •  I had her listed (1+ / 0-)

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          in with my 70s grouping where I didn't put up any lyrics.  I agree that she is amazing.  I heard a version of her doing Let It Be and she had me sobbing.  It was incredibly powerful.

          I had to chuckle at Holly Near up against Pearl Jam.  Not a good combination.  I saw her with Ronnie Gilbert several times.  They were really great together.

          Here's some simple advice: Always be yourself. Never take yourself too seriously. And beware of advice from experts, pigs, and members of Parliament. Kermit

          by sobermom on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 06:42:00 PM PDT

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          •  Baez (1+ / 0-)

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            I must have missed her. I saw her live in the early 70s and she was remarkable.

            I've also seen Holly Near a couple times -- during No Nukes and at Univ of WY. Haven't ever seen her with Ronnie Gilbert, though.

            I think the clash that finally set me to creating the two lists was when Holly Near's "It Should Have Been Me" (a special fave since it was originally written about Kent State) came up next to "It's the End of the World As We Know It (And I Feel Fine)" by R.E.M., a special favorite since, in 2003, at the end of their fabulous Red Rocks concert (outside Denver), Michael Stipe personally handed me a copy of the lyrics.

            R.E.M.'s last album, Around the Sun, has a lot of great subtly revolutionary songs. Their new CD -- due out April 1 -- will probably be appropriately angry.  

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            by kainah on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 06:58:09 PM PDT

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    •  I saw that song played in the Greek (3+ / 0-)

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      Bid outdoor L.A. amphitheater and when Bruce sang;

      All foreign wars I do proclaim
      Live on blood and a mothers pain
      I'd rather have my son as he used to be
      Than the king of America and the whole Navy

      3.000 people started crying.

      Music can be so powerful.

    •  Always! (1+ / 0-)

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      I can't believe I left him off my far too long list.  He also kept me sane during the Reagan years.

      This is a fun vid.  This is an oldie and goodie.

      Have you ever seen Black 47?

      Here's some simple advice: Always be yourself. Never take yourself too seriously. And beware of advice from experts, pigs, and members of Parliament. Kermit

      by sobermom on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 06:07:47 PM PDT

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      •  I just saw your comment now. (1+ / 0-)

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        This diary is stuck or something. It just won't load and I've been on diaries with much more clogged tubes that this today;

        I've seen Black 47 in pubs. Small Pubs too. They actually still play in a pub on 46th St. every Friday night. To tell you the truth I was never that crazy about and usually got dragged along by a woman. I liked them but I wasn't a big fan.

        I see that you like folk quite a bit. I wasn't exposed as much outside of the headliners but when I went out with Pam she had a nice collection of Cd's. A few that were on your list. She got me into Suzanne Vega and she took me to a show at the Bottom   Line that was a great night.

        We went to see Sally Fingerett, Patti Larkin, Christine Lavin and Megon McDonough perform  Buy Me Bring Me Take Me Don't Mess My Hair: Life According To Four Bitchin' Babes.

        Well your dairy got me to thinking about that night and I looked them up. They are still burning down the house.

        The only original member left is Sally Fingerett but they seem to still be putting a good show.

        Do you know them?

        •  I don't know of the group but (1+ / 0-)

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          Christine Lavin and Patti Larkin are fairly well known to me from their solo careers.  As is Suzanne Vega--although I actually prefer Sean Colvin to her.  My cousin plays folk and cut a small CD.  She sold one of her tunes to Lucie Blue Tremblay who recorded it.

          Here's some simple advice: Always be yourself. Never take yourself too seriously. And beware of advice from experts, pigs, and members of Parliament. Kermit

          by sobermom on Sat Jan 19, 2008 at 07:09:20 AM PDT

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          •  Congrats to your cousin (0+ / 0-)

            And good morning.

            I'm driving up to the mall for a movie and a nice meal.

            It is time for a little Atonement

            Maybe I'll pick up a Sean Colvin CD while I'm there.

            Have a good day and if I don't come up with a topic for next week I have a draft that I was saving for bone chilling February on the Venice Beach Drum Circle.

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    Stranger than fiction? At this point,the truth is stranger than japanese cartoons...

    by Remembering Jello on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 05:41:41 PM PDT

  •  off topic HAPPY STORY (7+ / 0-)

    Laramie's Stand Up for Peace marked a sad but notable anniversary today -- five weeks of Friday afternoon protests. Our estimate is that we've spent more than a full month of person-hours on that street corner now.

    We've done it when it was snowing, raining, windy, sunny, calm, and everything in between. The worse came in '03 when it was 32 below. Today, about 12 below with wind chill. (Although the gods were relatively kind and didn't kick up too much wind fuss while we were there.)

    Today, 10 of us stood on all four corners and we got a rousing reception from the Laramie community. And I just want to acknowledge the perseverance of a small but very dedicated and gentle group of Laramie, WY residents.

    Turn the Mountain West blue! Support Gary Trauner for Wyoming's only House seat!

    by kainah on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 05:46:25 PM PDT

    •  Congratulations on your efforts (3+ / 0-)

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      That is something to be both happy about and proud of.

      And thank you for doing that.

      •  thanks, Eddie (2+ / 0-)

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        Lately, it's been hard since everyone knows now that it's likely another year before there's any hope of actually ending it. That's why it was nice to see so many people turn out today to "celebrate" the occasion.

        Turn the Mountain West blue! Support Gary Trauner for Wyoming's only House seat!

        by kainah on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 05:52:01 PM PDT

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    •  That's (3+ / 0-)

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      awesome, kainah, truly inspiring! Five years seems like forever, doesn't it? I'm glad your group is still hanging in there :)

      •  five years (1+ / 0-)

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        I'm glad no one told me five years ago we'd still be out there today. At least we started in winter so ours have been 1/2 an hour from the beginning.

        A woman from Sheridan, WY came and joined us in the summer of '04 and got inspired to go back to Sheridan and start a group there. But, starting in summer, they got lulled into forgetting the brutality of WY winters and made their an hour long vigil. Last Tuesday, they were out there for an hour when it was minus twenty-plus. Brrrrrrrr.......

        Turn the Mountain West blue! Support Gary Trauner for Wyoming's only House seat!

        by kainah on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 06:05:57 PM PDT

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    •  Nothing is ever off topic (1+ / 0-)

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      in Happy Story.  Everything is welcome here.  Thanks for doing the vigil.  It's easy to do something like that in rabidly blue states.  I have a lot of respect for those who do it in places where the demographics aren't favorable.  I'm thrilled that you've gotten such a great reception.  Hooray for Laramie.  And hooray for Gary Trauner.  I met him at yKos and got to speak with him a little.  He's such a decent man and he has a great sense of humor.

      Here's some simple advice: Always be yourself. Never take yourself too seriously. And beware of advice from experts, pigs, and members of Parliament. Kermit

      by sobermom on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 06:15:28 PM PDT

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      •  Trauner (1+ / 0-)

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        He's going to have a tough race now against Cynthia Lummis, former state treasurer. I'm glad you got to meet him at YK. By great coincidence, I ran into him and Terry as they were just arriving. My first question to him was, "When are you going to declare?" And when he told me he'd filed the papers the day before, I was so excited. littlesky had to listen to me mutter periodic "YEAHs" for the rest of the night, knowing they all referred to Gary's news. He really is a wonderful guy and I hope Wyomingites, now that Cubin has taken herself out of the race, won't just fall back into their "pull the lever for the R" mindset. There was also an article on the front page of the Casper Star-Tribune about the DCCC picking Gary's as one of the first Red to Blue races to support.

        I hope you'll consider chipping in a few bucks as the months go on. Money in Wyoming goes a long way so a few dollars really help.

        Turn the Mountain West blue! Support Gary Trauner for Wyoming's only House seat!

        by kainah on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 06:27:29 PM PDT

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  •  Sobermom (1+ / 0-)

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    This is a great dairy but I have to go finish one that I am working on. I'll be back when nobody nibbles on mine.

  •  Steve Earle has some good ones (2+ / 0-)

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    I'm particularly fond of songs like "The Revolution Starts... Now," "Christmastime in Washington," "Harlan Man," and "City of Immigrants" ("it's my 'fuck Lou Dobbs' song").

    I'm also rather partial to the music and lyrics of System of a Down and Rage Against the Machine.

  •  Pink (3+ / 0-)

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    Dear Mr. President, take a walk with me...

    "Injustice wears ever the same harsh face wherever it shows itself." - Ralph Ellison

    by KateCrashes on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 06:20:51 PM PDT

  •  Here's the lyrics (spoken) to the song played (4+ / 0-)

    at the end of the movie "The Big Kahuna."  I find it quite inspirational, and as someone who is past the 50 year mark in age, I can certainly testify to the truth of these lyrics....

    Everybody's Free
    (to wear sunscreen)  
    Mary Schmich
    Chicago Tribune  

    Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of '97... wear sunscreen.
    If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be IT.

    The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience.

    I will dispense this advice now.

    Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded. But trust me, in 20 years you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked.

    You are NOT as fat as you imagine.

    Don't worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.

    Do one thing every day that scares you.

    Sing.
    Don't be reckless with other people's hearts, don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.

    Floss.
    Don't waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long, and in the end, it's only with yourself.

    Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

    Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.

    Stretch.
    Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still don't.

    Get plenty of calcium.

    Be kind to your knees, you'll miss them when they're gone.

    Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't, maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't, maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself, either. Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's. Enjoy your body, use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

    Dance. Even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.

    Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.

    Do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.

    Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good.

    Be nice to your siblings; they are your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

    Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography in lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.

    Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard; live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.

    Travel.
    Accept certain inalienable truths, prices will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old, and when you do you'll fantasize that when you were young prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.

    Respect your elders.

    Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one might run out.

    Don't mess too much with your hair, or by the time you're 40, it will look 85.

    Be careful whose advice you buy, but, be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.

    But trust me on the sunscreen.

    And here's a vid of it.  It truly hits home.  Make your children listen to this often.  Maybe it will sink in....

    Calling bullshit on "bracing rhetorical thrusters" since Fall 2006....put your words into action at Road2DC

    by Got a Grip on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 06:22:45 PM PDT

  •  John Gorka: Land of the Bottom Line (3+ / 0-)

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    sobermom, Eddie C, birdbrain64

    I couldn't bribe a wino on what I used to make
    My Fortune was as sure as the wind
    But I was free to wonder and time was on my hands
    It was mine to burn and to bend

    Freedom for freedom
    Call that an even scheme
    Give me time to wonder and to dream
    I'll take the money
    They'll take the time
    Down to the land of the bottom line
    To the bottom line

    Then there came a chance to make some steady dough
    Bouncing up my alley to the door
    You fill your clothes with keys and damned responsibilites
    Trading the maybe for the sure

    Freedom for freedom
    Call that an even scheme
    Give me time to wonder and to dream
    I'll take the money
    They'll take the time
    Down to the land of the bottom line
    To the bottom line

    All I ever wanted was to be a kid and play
    Fighting every change along the way
    I don't like work, but I don't like waste
    And I don't like waiting for a taste

    Freedom for freedom
    Call that an even scheme
    Give me time to wonder and to dream
    I'll take the money
    They'll take the time
    Down to the land of the bottom line
    To the bottom line

    (-8.00,-7.85) "Jesus Christ was the first nonviolent revolutionary." --S. Stills

    by bubbanomics on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 06:29:27 PM PDT

  •  all my faves (3+ / 0-)

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    sobermom, Eddie C, bubbanomics

    have been mentioned --

    and i have some new ones to add to my list. thanks, everybody. :)

    "This year, it's on like Donkey Kong." --dkos user PresentMoment

    by birdbrain64 on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 06:54:32 PM PDT

  •  Give Ireland Back To The Irish (2+ / 0-)

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    sobermom, Eddie C

    By Paul McCartney, of course!  (It's not the whole song, and it's not great quality, but hwere you go.)

  •  here's a song for Jan 20, 2009. (2+ / 0-)

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    sobermom, Eddie C

    These are days, 10000 maniacs.  

    These are the days
    These are days you’ll remember
    Never before and never since, I promise
    Will the whole world be warm as this
    And as you feel it,
    You’ll know it’s true
    That you are blessed and lucky
    It’s true that you
    Are touched by something
    That will grow and bloom in you

    These are days that you’ll remember
    When May is rushing over you
    With desire to be part of the miracles
    You see in every hour
    You’ll know it’s true
    That you are blessed and lucky
    It’s true that you are touched
    By something that will grow and bloom in you

    These are days
    These are the days you might fill
    With laughter until you break
    These days you might feel
    A shaft of light
    Make its way across your face
    And when you do
    Then you’ll know how it was meant to be
    See the signs and know their meaning
    It's true
    Then you’ll know how it was meant to be
    Hear the signs and know they’re speaking
    To you, to you

    (-8.00,-7.85) "Jesus Christ was the first nonviolent revolutionary." --S. Stills

    by bubbanomics on Fri Jan 18, 2008 at 07:32:28 PM PDT

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