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Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 06:41:22 AM PDT

When will this kind of stuff stop?


Woman sues Ohio sheriff's deputy over 'outrageous' strip search

Hope Steffey's night started with a call to police for help. It ended with her face down, naked, and sobbing on a jail cell floor. Now, the sheriff's deputies from Stark County, Ohio who allegedly used excessive force during a strip search 15 months ago face a federal lawsuit, and recently released video won’t help their case.

Steffey's ordeal with the Stark County sheriff's deputies began after her cousin called 9-1-1 claiming Steffey had been assaulted by another one of their cousins. When a Stark County police officer arrived, he asked to see Steffey's driver's license. But instead of handing over her own ID, she mistakenly turned over her dead sister's license, which she contends she keeps in her wallet as a memento. That's when the situation became complicated.

"Hope was not treated as a victim," her lawyer told WKYC News. "The officer said to her 'shut up about your dead sister.'"

Eventually, Steffey was arrested and taken to the Stark County Jail, charged with disorderly conduct and resisting arrest. But once in custody, her attorney says seven jail workers, male and female, forcibly removed Steffey of all her clothes, including her undergarments, while she lay face down in handcuffs. Local news footage shows Steffey wailing, asking "What are you doing?!?"

I had a cop/detective tell me that they could arrest my alcoholic violent husband if he did damage to the television set before they considered his violent behaviour against me. Did he say he was going to kill you?" "No," I said. So they left. I didn't know there were priorities above my well being. Material items were more important than protecting me from a violent drunk.

Is domestic violence just a 'tame' event? Fortunately, in one way, my husband did threaten My Life after the cops left and I called 911 and then they did arrest him.

This life experience is one reason why I will vote for Hillary. I think a very important reason. Most women do understand the unforgiveable crap we still have to deal with.

Now back to the article that has me so upset. This stuff kicks in PTS for many people who have experienced violence. PTS is scary all by itself.

The lawsuit says that Steffey remained in the cell for six hours and wrapped herself in toilet paper to stay warm. During that time, she was not allowed to use a phone or seek medical assistance for injuries she accrued that night, including a cracked tooth, bulging disc, and bruises.

Although the sheriff's policy requires officers conducting any strip search to be of the same sex, the sheriff contends that the tactic used on Steffey was not actually a strip search. He also questions the validiy of the events leading up to Steffey’s arrest.

Once shown the exclusive video, Steffey’s husband was in disbelief. "You don't treat people like this," he said. "I don't think murderers are treated like this."

I know good men care about women, but I trust women more than men when it comes to the basics. That is why I would like women leadership for a change. It will be a big first step in raising the respect for women and all people.

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  •  proudly be first to tip you (9+ / 0-)

    Go team Hillary! Girls rule, boys drool! ;-)

    Clintonism is the kind of government I could get used to.

    by cataclysm on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 06:42:27 AM PDT

  •  Saw this on C&L and was dumbstruck... (11+ / 0-)

    I hope they sue the crap out of those guys and own them for MILLIONS.

    What the Fuck has happened to this country?

    -6.5, -7.59. John McSame - running for Bush's third term. We can't afford it.

    by DrWolfy on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 06:45:58 AM PDT

  •  I hear what you're saying and I agree (8+ / 0-)

    for the most part--I'm a woman, and have either experienced or have friends who can tell stories just like this one, far too often.

    Having a woman in charge will definitely help, but she'll still have to deal with lots of men. I don't know that this, by itself, is the only answer.

    I say that because I know of more than one woman "police officer" with less compassion about basic human decency than some men. Those are the worst--idiots with badges who have yet another layer of chip on their shoulder because they're women.

    I think that in general, compassionless law enforcement is more about a general disrespect of the Constitution (which comes from the top) and not as much about gender. All that said, the story above is disgusting, and I thank you for bringing it up for discussion.

    On second thought , let's not go to Camelot. 'Tis a silly place

    by o the umanity on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 06:51:47 AM PDT

    •  I think women have improved the police. (10+ / 0-)

      Most law enforcement chiefs acknowledge that adding women has been a net positive--they don't think with their balls. (And I mean that seriously). They are proven to be more likely to be effective at talking down belligerent drunks and add balance to the force (although that is a generalization).

      I have no doubt that a disproportionate number of the wrong kind of women enter law enforcement, same as men. I had a roomate who was a cop and there are a LOT of assholes on the force. Crooked, abusive, belligerent, authoritarian assholes. Fortunately there are some good ones, but I don't trust any of them.

      Well fuck it all, I'm still not leaving. I'm too goddamn mean and stubborn to be run off by a swarm of annoying insects.

      by homogenius on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 07:02:13 AM PDT

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    •  Stories such as this (3+ / 0-)

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      Are far more common that we would like to believe. I agree with "o the umanity" that disrespect for the Constitution greatly exacerbates the issue. I wish the solution was as simple as electing a woman president, but it's not.

      Another recent diary (I'm sorry I can't remember which one!) linked this country's fondness for capital punishment with our tolerance of torture. I think this story fits into that mix. If we allow the abominations of Guantanamo Bay and Abu Ghraib, and dozens of American prisoners to be killed with taxpayer money every year (thousands more held in hellish death-row limbo), then why not rough up innocent average citizens for sport in Toledo or Peoria or Honolulu or New York City? Why, it wouldn't be sporting to leave average law enforcement pros out of the mix, now would it?

      Time for an ethics and values check, folks, not to mention a look in the mirror at what we're doing to ourselves when our lead law enforcement official, the Attorney General, can't bring himself to define the clearly cruel practice of waterboarding as torture.

      Sweet are the uses of adversity...[Find] tongues in trees, books in the running brooks, Sermons in stones, and good in everything. -Shakespeare, As You Like It

      by earicicle on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 07:36:57 AM PDT

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    •  The whole point of America (0+ / 0-)

      was fear of unchecked authority.

      Now, taking the personal out of it and putting in the partisan, who are you going to trust more?

      a) a party that puts up for the presidency a woman who has been ridiculed, hated, slandered, demeaned, slimed, and subjected to every other form of character attack short of physical abuse by...

      b) a party that has not publicly condemned one of their until-recently leading presidential candidates for saying women should be lesser than their men

      Give me ten lines from a good man and I'll find something in there to hang him. - Cardinal Richelieu

      by lgrooney on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 07:54:24 AM PDT

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  •  I would like to see a woman for president (10+ / 0-)

    But

    I trust women more than men when it comes to the basics. That is why I would like women leadership for a change.

    It depends on the woman.

    •  if enough people scream loud enough (2+ / 0-)

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      for long enough they can convince you that there is something wrong with just about anyone.
      There is not a single reason that any good democrat would not want Hillary Clinton as President.  She is more progressive than Obama and a partisan democrat who will bring us UHC, will protect SS and will not go around praising the transformational Reagan and the republicans as the party of ideas.
      There is nothing wrong with Hillary Clinton and no reason she should not be the first female president regardless of what the screamers have said for months.

      •  Iraq (5+ / 0-)

        I'd love to vote for a woman who had the courage to stand up and resist the rush to invade a country that had no connection to 9/11 and was no threat to us.  I'd love to vote for a woman who has the courage to call "bullshit" on the propaganda against Iran. I'd love to vote for a woman who is strong enough to oppose senseless violence in our foreign policy, because violence isn't just something that happens between two individuals. It's much worse when one country does it to another, simply because of the number of people involved.

        •  Iraq is a complex issue (1+ / 0-)

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          There is American safety on one hand, and there is a risk that thing will get escalate international on the other hand.   This is the summary of her speech in the senate explain the rational for her vote.

          "So it is with conviction that I support this resolution as being in the best interests of our nation. A vote for it is not a vote to rush to war; it is a vote that puts awesome responsibility in the hands of our President and we say to him - use these powers wisely and as a last resort.  Thank you, Mr. President"

          Of cause Bush didn't have enough wisdom to use this power, and didn't use as a last resort.  If you read the whole speech, you will understand that the use of force is a threat to force Saddam to accept the UN inspection team.  How else you can force Saddam to take it seriously that the world is coming to check if he has chemical weapon or not?  

          For Iran case, I was seriously incline to the believe that Iran MIGHT have nuclear weapon, before the report comes out that they have none.  How about you?  Were you also scare that they might have something?  They are very aggressive against US and western idea.  They refuse to believe the holocaust. The problem here is Bush government should have study the intelligent report and lead us according.  He's the one that have access to it.   He's like a boy with a gun.  Not capable to handle firearm.  But of cause we were the one that voted the boy into the office.

          Old men start war.
          Young men fight them.
          Everybody in the middle got killed.

          We need a capable woman to change this mentality.

          She's a diamond, strong, bright, and precious.

          by JoeySky18 on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 08:05:17 AM PDT

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          •  Anyone who took five minutes of fact checking (1+ / 0-)

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            could determine with some accuracy that the case for invading Iraq was flimsy bullshit. I did it myself armed only with an internet connection and "google."

            The propaganda against Iran is just as flimsy, and it's coming from the same folks who already proved themselves liars with their case against Iraq.

            Please don't let yourself be fooled yet again. Human lives are at stake.

      •  Oh, I don't know. (1+ / 0-)

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        I suppose she's probably better than John McCain, if it ever came to that, but I can think of a few reasons.

    •  I do believe (4+ / 0-)

      that Obama would be as sensitive to this issue as Hillary, if not moreso.

      That's not to say Hillary would be "insensitive" to the issue, at all.

      In reality, this particular issue isn't really one the POTUS has a lot of control over, outside the 'bully pulpit'. Policing is a local issue.

      GWOT - Global War on Terra(-firma) - Bush's War on the Planet.

      by grndrush on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 07:31:27 AM PDT

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  •  And if there was no tape?! (9+ / 0-)

    If would be "he said, she said" and she'd be buried under the jail.

    It's a shame when law enforcement becomes the problem rather than the solution!

    "What a peaceful world it would be if Barbara had aborted!"

    by DevonTexas on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 06:59:08 AM PDT

  •  as we march, lemming like, towards (10+ / 0-)

    a more controlling, more fascist, more surveilled state, all because Bush inflicted never-ending fear into our lives (rather than treat 9/11 appropriately), simply for temporary political gain, we are going to see many more stories like this.

    When you apply that old, but still relevant adage that "power corrupts", and apply it to today's local constables, trouble is bound to follow.

    Here in the burbs of Chicago, there are two distinct types of police. One group, small, professional, proud of their education, training, and abilities are respected. the other, larger and scary group, wield their power with a swagger. small minds, bigger bellies, and large guns. They usually load up their cars with as many lights as physically possible. The more numerous the lights, the lower the quality of policing.

    To fully understand Christianity's duplicity, first recognize that the Vatican's St. Peter's Square is actually an oval.

    by agnostic on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 07:02:04 AM PDT

  •  the problem... (4+ / 0-)

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    ...with the police these days is the authoratarian training model they are using...

    please pardon the poor keyboarding, i can never decide which two of my ten thumbs to use, so hopefully some of you are fluent in Typo

    by TAPayne on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 07:08:17 AM PDT

  •  Even more frightening (5+ / 0-)

    You can bet they won't have any cameras taping what is going to go down in the Blackwater run gulags in Texas.

    This story is horrible and I hope she bankrupts the local government for their crime against her. Thanks roseeriter for keeping this story on the front page.

    'I don't want any commies in my car. Christians either!' Repo Man

    by Psychotronicman on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 07:11:25 AM PDT

  •  Oh my God. (6+ / 0-)

    Just, oh my God.


    The religious fanatics didn't buy the republican party because it was virtuous, they bought it because it was for sale

    by nupstateny on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 07:13:42 AM PDT

  •  We need to speak out more... (4+ / 0-)

    this story is disturbing.  It reminds me of my own letter to the editor about an illegal roadside search of my car.  The letter sits unsent.  Not anything near what this woman went through, of course.  But many citizens do not know their rights when it comes to the police, and most let episodes of harrassment pass, until something so horrible happens that it must get attention.  

    I guess what I'm saying is, give them an inch and they will take a mile.  People (myself included) must speak out about illegal police tactics.  If you have an elected sheriff, hit him/her where politicians notice.  Or the mayor, or whoever is an elected official, whose office can be threatened.

    My sympathies to Ms. Steffey.

    Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society -Mark Twain

    by gooners on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 07:23:17 AM PDT

  •  I honestly don't see how this relates (3+ / 0-)

    to Clinton or "Women Presidents". The story you tell here is not about men abusing women as a class - it's about cops abusing "civilians" (as they call us disdainfully). They didn't strip her and leave her naked as a male-on-female sexual aggression, but as generalized aggression against those weaker than themselves.

    I seriously doubt that a female president would have any more effect on this than a black president, or a brown president, or ... This is a separate issue from domestic violence, one that doesn't pit males against females, but free citizens against authoritarian police.

    •  Hillary is an authoritarian. (2+ / 1-)

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      She will promote policies which will make such abuses more likley. It is also worth noting that two female officers took an active role in the sexual assault depicted in the video. Truly disturbing stuff, but to be expected when the government uses fear to solidify their power.

      Only Barack Obama has rejected the politics of fear. This diary only serves to increase fear by suggesting that men as a group should be held responsible for this abomination and that women must support Hillary out of a fear of men.

      Screwed up thinking on so many levels.

      You know what? I do want Obama to be my hip black friend.

      by tampa traveler on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 07:39:01 AM PDT

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    •  It does relate (1+ / 0-)

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      The original arresting officer refused to hear her pleas and muscled her into the police car. Why? Because he was physically a lot stronger than she was and he could do it without risking injury.

      Now if it had been me they would have needed to make a stop at the hospital for myself and the six officers it would have taken to get me into the police car. They would have been spitting teeth by the time they tazed me into submission. He would have listened to me because if he didn't he would face a reasonably dangerous opponent. Cowards never like that.  

      'I don't want any commies in my car. Christians either!' Repo Man

      by Psychotronicman on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 07:45:57 AM PDT

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      •  that's so funny. (2+ / 0-)

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        i could picture the scene quite clearly from your explanation.  Yeah, kick their assess.!

        She's a diamond, strong, bright, and precious.

        by JoeySky18 on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 08:14:14 AM PDT

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      •  Remember the taser... (2+ / 0-)

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        Most "civilians" are easily physically imposed upon. For starters, quite a few police officers are body-builders or steroid users. Then you've got the taser for the few percentage that can really out-muscle a cop.

        If you really think that you could have gotten them spitting teeth, you are under a severe illusion about their tendency to move toward tasers and batons and then cite you for resisting arrest.

        It's not a feminism issue. It's a citizenship issue, a respect for the community.

        •  You missed my point (1+ / 0-)

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          The entire incident would never have happened to a man because the threat of dangerous confrontation would have given the police officer pause to listen.

          The minute I realized what he was up to I would have meekly acted cowed and then when he wasn't ready for it jumped his ass and made him eat the street. The cops would certainly have beaten the shit out of me but not before I got a few good licks in.

          'I don't want any commies in my car. Christians either!' Repo Man

          by Psychotronicman on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 10:17:36 AM PDT

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          •  BS (1+ / 0-)

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            You just haven't been paying attention. First, most guys aren't physically dominant over most cops - most guys don't spend most of their lives in the gym, or take steroids, or are under 35. Second, most cops are extremely itchy fingered, and since most people who are being arrested aren't planning "to act cowed and then jump his ass", but instead start mouthing off right away if they're going to be trouble, you get the taser before you get your chance.

            In short, you're either extremely unusual (and therefore irrelevant in general), or extremely delusional. Unless you're six four and 240, it doesn't matter whether you're male or female - you are not physically intimidating to a police officer. And if you are a giant, they're going to kick your ass on principle before you get a chance.

            The one thing they will be respectful of isn't physical threat, but political threat. If you appear to be wealthy and well-connected, they will be nervous about abusing you, because they know it'll come back to bite them in the ass. But that only works if they're not already worked up - because no one plans ahead once they've got the adrenaline going.

            •  You're off by eight pounds and two inches (0+ / 0-)

              And I am in very good shape. I guarantee they'll listen to me. If only to avoid stitches.

              'I don't want any commies in my car. Christians either!' Repo Man

              by Psychotronicman on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 10:48:34 AM PDT

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              •  Then you're not quite aware (0+ / 0-)

                of the relationship of most men with the cops. American men average at 5'10 and are out of shape ; that means a lot of men are 5'5 and the only way they'll knock out teeth is with a quick head butt (which will land you in the hospital, if not the morgue).

                Why do you think so many cops are on 'roids if it didn't work to physically intimidate most people (male and female)? You may be a lucky one; most men are not.

                •  I've had more than my share of confrontations (0+ / 0-)

                  with gestapo wannabe's but I have also seen how they interact with other men versus women. A crazed man at 5'5 is much more dangerous than most women. Most of these 'roid freaks are bullies by nature and bullies are always wary of getting into a fair fight even with a little guy. Little guys kick ass too.

                  I know it sounds silly but watch 'Cops' for an example. When they reply to a call involving women they always move in quickly and physically intimidate the suspect. But when it involves a situation with men they usually spend a lot more time talking to them and trying to calm them so there will be no confrontation. The aren't afraid of women but unless the guy is in a wheelchair and weighs 120 they are much more careful.

                  'I don't want any commies in my car. Christians either!' Repo Man

                  by Psychotronicman on Mon Feb 04, 2008 at 11:01:09 AM PDT

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                  •  Tell Abidou Diallo. (0+ / 0-)

                    Being male has a big effect on criminals, because any physical confrontation that gets out of hand is likely to end you up in jail. The gestapo wannabes are often looking for an excuse to turn it into a fight; they get off on it as long as it's not too risky.

                    As I said, I've seen a much bigger difference based on perceived wealth and class than in gender. The cops are much less likely to try to intimidate a 120 pound white woman in a Mercedes with a law degree than a six foot black guy in his hoopty - they really, really don't want to taze her, or leave her with bruises. The black guy may just be a bit of fun if they outnumber him in the right context.

                    It's not mostly about gender, it's about what you can get away with.

  •  Horrific story (3+ / 0-)

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    But not uncommon enough, for damn sure.

  •  Cllinton Cops (2+ / 0-)

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    Elian

    7 year old Elian Gonzalez being taken in to custody by Clinton's department of Justice.  Janet Reno (a female) was head of DOJ.  And we should all remember the WACO massacre.

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