Those are the words my Marine son said to me when he left for his first deployment in early 2005. I will never forget them, and they were words I held onto for dear life.
As he walked through the security gates at the airport, I waved and waved, and cried and cried. When I no longer could see him, my husband helped me to a chair in the lobby. I could hardly walk as the sobs shook my very soul. A kind gentleman and his wife approached my husband and me, and asked if that young man was going to war. I don’t remember what my husband said, but I do know he and his wife were very kind. They thanked us – really – thanked us for our son’s service. And then they did a very kind thing. They gave my husband a $100 bill and asked us to find out what my son needed and send care packages.
Follow me below the fold for the rest of this part of the story.
I never thought for one moment in raising two boys and one girl that I would be a military mom. But low and behold in November of 2003, my youngest son told me he had joined the Marines and would be reporting for boot camp early of 2004. He wanted to join as a 0311 – an infantryman – and they wouldn’t have any openings in that MOS until March of 2004.
Even in boot camp I learned early how important letters were to my son. They were his only contact with the outside world. In boot camp you couldn’t send care packages or this Mom certainly would have done that.
After he reached his permanent duty station in the fall of 2004, he was told he would deploy to Iraq in early 2005. While I knew this was more than likely coming, my world as I knew it was completely shattered. In February of 2005, my son came out to Oregon on a pre-deployment leave. We tried to cram in a lifetime of memories during those 5 days. On the morning before we left for the airport, my son asked me to do him a favor. He said he knew it was going to be tough, but could I please not cry. I told him I couldn’t promise that but I would try. Obviously I couldn’t do that favor for him.
Once we made it home, I wrote to him every day, long detailed letters of what our days were like. I sent him care packages twice a week, one with food items, the other with batteries, phone cards, magazines and other non-food items. The few times he would call, he would ask for specific items and I would run out and get them and mail them out.
I learned from his phone calls and after he got home how important the letters and care packages were. All of the guys in his unit shared the items with one another. The care packages became a lifeline to my son and the others, but they also became my lifeline to my son.
My son did three deployments and each one was different, but I’ll explain that in the next diary.
Please help remember our troops – they deserve it. They give so much of themselves for all of us.
Our goal for Netroots for the TroopsTM 2011 is $100,000.0 (cash or in-kind donations)
NFTT's primary function is the purchasing and assembling of Care Packages at Netroots Nation to be mailed to American Military serving in war zones. However, the needs of our military families and veterans at home are also a NFTT priority. As llbear et al. have shown, far too often veterans and their families end up caught between a need and red tape. As we raise funds this year remember that your donation will be helping on multiple levels. Our deployed sons and daughter will know they have not been forgotten. Military families will know that they are not alone. Veterans at home will receive needed help.
We realize that you would like to donate something tangible to go inside the packages that will be mailed to the troops. Unfortunately, accepting in-kind donations from individuals is not practical in terms of storage and handling of the items. We will only be accepting corporate donations or cash from YOU to purchase items for the care packages this year.
Here’s how YOU can help:
1. Please contact TexDem if you know someone who might be helpful in securing the corporate in-kind donations. Just leave him a message through the dkos message system. To help you think of companies who could donate products, see below for a list of potential items. Put your thinking caps on and let us hear from you. It takes time to get through the corporate processes so we need to hear from you ASAP!
2. We are accepting cash from individuals and -beg- ask that you DONATE HERE to contribute to this worthy cause. Your donation will enable us to purchase the things that we are unable to obtain through corporate donations, and will help to pay the costs of shipping them to our troops.
3. Sign up for a diary! Don’t worry---we’ve made it easy for you. We’ve got a template set up, and all you need to do is add a small introduction. You can tell us why you are donating or share a story of someone you know who has served or is serving. You can post some favorite pootie and woozel photos. Or how about some gardening photos? We love them! Recipes? We're ready to cook. A list of the top ten guitarists of all time? We'll listen. An homage to your favorite Sci-Fi/Fantasy writer? (Terry Pratchett is one of mine.) We'll be reading. We want you to have fun while raising money for our troops and their families. Just drop Onomastic/Ono a message through the dkos message system to get the template and on the schedule.
4. Do you know a service member who would like to receive a care package? Email a request to: info@netrootsforthetroops.com before May 31, 2011. Please include all of the following information. Unfortunately we will not be able to process any incomplete requests:
Rank:
Last name:
First name:
APO Address Line 1:
APO Address Line 2:
APO Address Zip:
If you know of a Military Unit that would like to receive care packages please include Unit and contact information by May 15, 2011.
5. Write letters to be included in the packages! If you need some ideas, rbutters wrote an excellent diary with tips on how to write letters to troops and why it’s so important to them.
6. Help us assemble the packages in Minneapolis. It's fun! More information will be forthcoming for those of you who are going to be in Minneapolis and would like to help there.
7. Please consider joining the NFTT FaceBook Group. Invite your FaceBook and non-FaceBook friends.
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The goal for 2011 is 600 Care Packages assembled in Minneapolis, that equates to approximately $100,000.00. Again this was decided upon after seeing we could assemble 300 in 45 minutes in Pittsburgh. Those boxes had a retail value of approximately $210.00. The items we'll be sending will be comparable to what was sent last year. However, that list is subject to modification based on suggestions, request and needs. Btw, check out the NFTT website.
The following list contains some of the things we have included in packages. Please let us know if you know someone who might be helpful in securing these corporate in-kind donations. (Please DO NOT send these items yourself! We have no way to accept them. Instead, your cash donation is the very best way to help make this happen on the ground in Minneapolis.)
- Baby wipes
- Mechanix gloves
- LED flashlights
- Gel shoe insoles
- Goop Cleaning Gel
- Powdered energy drinks
- Gel energy food packets
- DVDs and CDs
- Letters to the soldiers
- More suggestions coming soon
The NFTT diaries are a way for the Daily Kos community to support the troops in Afghanistan and Iraq and their families. We send them packages of items they might not otherwise receive through the normal military process but that they find useful. This is a non-political diary. While we understand there are differing views on the wars and the warriors, the site gives plenty of opportunity to express those views elsewhere. Furthermore, we would hope that users do not engage with those that attempt to hijack or otherwise disrupt these diaries.
We appreciate your understanding and support. Thanks!
Netroots For The TroopsTM is a project of Netroots for the Troops, Inc., a Virginia non-profit corporation. Netroots For The TroopsTM raises money for the assembly, mailing and delivery of care packages to American military in war zones, and to provide assistance to military families in the United States. Netroots For The Troops, Inc. is a 501(c)3 tax-exempt organization.