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In late November of 2003, I sat on the floor in a crowded luncheon just a few feet and slightly behind Adrienne Rich, speaking and reading her poetry at the annual convention of the National Council of Teachers of English, held that year in San Francisco.

Appropriately, Rich was reading from her upcoming collection, The School among the Ruins, and talking about teaching, teachers, and education. I was struck by many things that day, and eventually I wrote a poem to capture the moment (see below).

As a poet, teacher, reader, and human, I have been deeply and permanently moved and changed by the poetry and essays of Rich, from the genius of "Diving into the Wreck" and "Aunt Jennifer's Tigers" to the reconsideration of Emily Dickinson in "Vesuvius at Home: The Power of Emily Dickinson" (see On Lies, Secrets, and Silence) to her remarkable and soaring Arts of the Possible, that includes one of the most cited passages in my scholarly works:

"Universal public education has two possible—and contradictory—missions. One is the development of a literate, articulate, and well-informed citizenry so that the democratic process can continue to evolve and the promise of radical equality can be brought closer to realization. The other is the perpetuation of a class system dividing an elite, nominally 'gifted' few, tracked from an early age, from a very large underclass essentially to be written off as alienated from language and science, from poetry and politics, from history and hope—toward low-wage temporary jobs. The second is the direction our society has taken. The results are devastating in terms of the betrayal of a generation of youth. The loss to the whole of society is incalculable." (p. 162)
For Rich, the human condition is a fact of what is spoken and unspoken:
"The study of silence has long engrossed me. The matrix of a poet's work consists not only of what is there to be absorbed and worked on, but also of what is missing, desaparecido, rendered unspeakable, thus unthinkable." (p. 150)
When I discovered last night that Rich had passed, I recognized that while she would no longer speak again to us, she would never be unspoken. With her work, Rich remains the artist of the possible.

Woman as Poet: Possibilities

The life and writing of Rich are testaments to and challenges against the hegemonies of gender, marriage, sexuality, and human agency. She lived many lives in her one life, a fact common for women trapped in the expectations of gender that often create burdens that are nearly impossible to carry.

Her early life included marriage and three sons, and then she lived a much different life after separating from her husband, a life often characterized by a sort of radical feminism that celebrated her lesbianism. Her life as a poet/writer paralleled this personal transformation, with Rich acknowledging that her early success as a poet was built on her embracing modernist traditions, leading to her "Aunt Jennifer's Tigers" being both, according to her, a rejection (somewhat unconsciously) and model of those traditions. The poet Rich, however, became a radical as well, resulting in canon czars such as Harold Bloom marginalizing Rich as merely political—missing entirely Rich's powerful argument that political is all that poetry and a poet can be: "I take it that poetry—if it is poetry—is liberatory at its core" (Arts of the Possible, p. 116).

Rich's poetry and her critical work on Dickinson were central parts of my teaching during my nearly two decades as an ELA high school teacher. In fact, one of the most important and influential units I eventually included in the quarter we explored poetry included Rich's work paired with the poetry of Sylvia Plath and Anne Sexton. Along with these poets, we viewed the film Pleasantville, framing the lives and poetry of Rich (1929-2012), Plath (1932-1963), and Sexton (1928-1974) against the Betty Parker (Joan Allen) character in the film, the TV mother trapped in the norms of 1950s American.

This unit asked students to consider the suicides of Plath and Sexton against the life and poetic transformations of Rich; we also discussed how the film portrayed Betty Parker, both as a model of the norms of 1950s America and the real person trapped under her make up and the oppressive roles of wife and mother (dramatizing the poetry of Rich's "Aunt Jennifer's Tigers": "The massive weight of Uncle's wedding band/ Sits heavily upon Aunt Jennifer's hand").

And for the words Rich brought to my classroom and my life, I am forever in her debt. She validated things I had dared to think but feared to speak. She reminds me daily of the humility that should be at my core, a paradoxical radical humility, a commitment to human dignity and agency that are both threatened by the mere fact of my being a man in a world and society that allows the norm of manhood to oppress and silence.

It is deeply sad to lose Adrienne Rich, and profoundly uplifting to know all that remains forever from her words and her life:

"The possibilities that exist between two people, or among a group of people, are a kind of alchemy. They are the most interesting thing in life. The liar is someone who keeps losing sight of these possibilities....

"It isn't that to have an honorable relationship with you, I have to understand everything, or tell you everything at once, or that I can know, beforehand, everything I need to tell you. It means that most of the time I am eager, longing for the possibility of telling you. That these possibilities may seem frightening, but not destructive, to me. That I feel strong enough to hear your tentative and groping words. That we both know we are trying, all the time, to extend the possibilities of truth between us.

"The possibility of life between us." (Arts of the Possible, pp. 39-40)

It cannot be coincidence that just a few days ago I sat in my office talking with one of my students; I pulled four books of Rich's from the shelf and recommended her to the student.

This morning that student walked into my office with the New York Times article on the passing of Rich.

No, this could not be a coincidence, and yes, it must be the bittersweet symmetry of the universe that reminded me during my moments of sadness of the possibilities.


Adrienne Rich @

Adrienne Rich @ Poetry Foundation

Anne Sexton: A Biography, Diane Wood Middlebrook

Anne Sexton @ Poetry Foundation

Sylvia Plath: A Biography, Linda Wagner-Martin

Sylvia Plath @ Poetry Foundation


"upon hearing adrienne rich speak and read her poetry"

P. L. Thomas, 2003

i cannot shake the rush
of my own grandmother—
hair cropped short—
rush over me whenever
i see adrienne rich—

this time—in person—
i felt the hunger to cry
as i watched her—
cane in hand—shuffle on stage
like but not my grandmother—

my chest and eyes welled
again and again from her words—
speaking about teaching
the frailty of teaching
in America—America—

because she knows—
if “knows” means “tastes in the air”
if “knows” means “feels with her blood”—
because she knows
what no one can teach

this mother of us teachers
who lives that which cannot be taught—
the doubling over in pain
from other people’s suffering
that is surely not of this America—

and if i told her
“adrienne, my lives have split
me into pieces, pieces”
she might cry right there
her eyes welled as mine

because it is that knowing
that makes us cry
at the slightest suffering
of any anyone who hurts
and struggles against this whip

called “living”

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  •  Thank you for commemmorating the passing (3+ / 0-)
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    Mother Mags, plthomasEdD, 2thanks

    of this important literayr figure.  

    I heard Rich read at my small liberal-arts college in 1981, and I was so struck that I approached a lit professor about doing an independent-study course on her work.  The prof suggested we expand it to cover other contemporary feminist poets, and draw in several other students for a small directed reading group.  This happened, and it formed the nucleus of a poetry collection I still consult almost daily to this very day -- despite a career in science teaching and IT.  

    Her work changed my life.  Certain poems, certain essays, stick with me and illuminate everyday events.  

    "Women and Honour: some notes on lying" was especially influential.  It changed the way I thought about dishonesty and its motivations.  

    When the excellent 2011 production of Jane Eyre came out, with a particularly feminist emphasis on Jane's female confidants, I had to immediately re-read Rich's "Jane Eyre; the temptations of a motherless woman".  I still think screenplay writer Moira Buffini must have read Rich's analysis and incorporated it into her framing -- the correspondences were striking.

    At my lesbian wedding committment ceremony in 1997, we used one of Rich's "Twenty One Love Poems" as part of our service.

    She was a hero.  A genius.  

    "The extinction of the human race will come from its inability to EMOTIONALLY comprehend the exponential function." -- Edward Teller

    by lgmcp on Thu Mar 29, 2012 at 09:51:57 AM PDT

  •  Beautiful! I was thrilled to go to a reading of (3+ / 0-)
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    hers in 1980.  I first started reading her poems in the early 70's.  RIP!

    "Forever is composed of nows." Emily Dickinson

    by Leftovers on Thu Mar 29, 2012 at 09:54:35 AM PDT

  •  It was so perfect (3+ / 0-)
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    Clio2, Safina, 2thanks

    The rules break like a thermometer,
    quicksilver spills across the charted systems,
    we’re out in a country that has no language
    no laws, we’re chasing the raven and the wren
    through gorges unexplored since dawn
    whatever we do together is pure invention
    the maps they gave us were out of date
    by years… we’re driving through the desert
    wondering if the water will hold out
    the hallucinations turn to simple villages
    the music on the radio comes clear—
    neither Rosenkavalier nor Götterdämmerung
    but a woman’s voice singing old songs
    with new words, with a quiet bass, a flute
    plucked and fingered by women outside the law.

    It summed up so much. The freedom from precedents.  The setting of the wilderness retreat.  The sense of utter liberation and freedom that comes from the free union of complete equals.  My flute playing.  Our shared love of music and folk song.  The arid climate.  The purely extra-legal nature of the whole enterprise.  Everything.  

    "The extinction of the human race will come from its inability to EMOTIONALLY comprehend the exponential function." -- Edward Teller

    by lgmcp on Thu Mar 29, 2012 at 10:00:25 AM PDT

  •  Thank you! Beautifully written. (3+ / 0-)
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    We had Rich to our university several times over the years. Your classes sound wonderful, and your appreciation of and debt to her voice is palpable in every syllable.

    stay together / learn the flowers / go light - Gary Snyder

    by Mother Mags on Thu Mar 29, 2012 at 10:04:02 AM PDT

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