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You've heard this particularly vile argument now being made by the inglorious right wing media.  "If people care so much about children dying, why aren't they doing more about black-on-black violence?  Why is the Zimmerman case such a big deal?"  To my right wing colleagues, let me say this to you, now... STOP!  This will not end well for you, not now, not ever!

You have been on the wrong side of history for far too long, and you're about to add one more page to the book that dooms you; the book that holds you accountable for every racist, sexist, homophobic, xenophobic statement/law/policy/group mantra you've ever made, held, or defended.

What's different in the two cases?  Let me tell you!

The fight to end Black-On-Black violence should be viewed as evidence that we care when black youth die, no matter WHO pulls the trigger.  Any conservative making this argument could have taken the time to wipe away the happy smug, pull both arms back down from the self-congratulatory pats on the back, and taken part in a brief Google search to find out how many anti-gang initiatives there are out there, working to end the Black-On-Black phenomenon.  You could have searched to find out how many communities, and individuals, touched by violence, have fought to save their children.

The fact that you haven't conducted such a search or mentioned any of those programs highlights two issues:

1.  You are STILL, even if implicitly, associating this child, Trayvon Martin, with violent gangs and other violent youth.  Your pal, George Zimmerman, has killed this child (you call it self-defense).  You are now continuing to malign this child's character.  Those who knew him have a completely different, evidence based, view of who he was -- no surprise, so you've missed the mark altogether.  Those children, in other places, who are killing one another are not Trayvon, though they deserve to be saved too.  They are not the reason Zimmerman pulled that trigger, either.

2.  These worthless, useless comments also highlight how little the right wing has been involved in resolving the issue (other than offering to build more prisons for offenders or continuing to financially bankrupt low income communities).  I think every "journalist" who allows them to make such comments should be asking those who make them what they've personally done to resolve the issue.  Conservatives should be asked what contributions they've made to bettering the lives of the children and families they so deeply care about, now.

Here is what you, America's right wing, need to keep in mind.  Black-on-Black violence is NOT a pass to kill our sons and daughters and walk away clean. We will not allow it.  Your day is DONE. Looking at us as less than human is DONE.  We know that we are human, even if you don't see beyond your stereotypes of who we, as African-Americans, are.

-- I held my "Black" son minutes after his birth.
-- I fed him and nursed him when he was sick.
-- I held his hand on the first day of class and cried more than he did when we were separated.
-- I held him the first time: his feelings were hurt, his heart was broken, he felt lost in the world.  I was there supporting him every time those things happened after the first time.
-- I stayed up the first time he went out at night, alone in the car - and was up for many nights after that first time.
-- I celebrated his graduation from college and then from graduate school.
-- I cried with joy when he became engaged and thought about the day I would one day become a grandmother and walk with my grandchild through the same steps I took with my son.
--I cry whenever I think of that new life that will one day grace this family.

Those are just a few of the experiences we probably have in common, many of them are the experiences the Martin family have in common with you as well.  Sadly, some of them, thanks to Zimmerman, will be denied to the Martin family.  

Where you see thugs, gangs, fear, and loathing, many of us see love, grace, hope, and understanding.  I owe the Martin family.  I owe my son.  I owe the nieces and nephews  I am now raising.  I owe the grandchildren that will one day bless this family and make us even stronger.

Conservatives making this argument need to understand that their comments implicitly amount to this: If you're killing your own boys, if some of you fear them, why is it a problem if someone else does it?".  You may not be culturally competent and adept enough to know what you're asking, but that is it.

Is that what you MEAN to ask?  
Do you mean to use black-on-black violence to mock our pain over the death of an innocent child???  
Whether or not that's your intent, here is what you need to know:

Your arguments are not going to clear Zimmerman or Dunn
We will remember your words!  
We will remember every false move you make!
We are organizing!  
Keep saying it out loud.  
It is your right, but what your words also do is keep reminding us why you don't deserve to hold office or make laws and policies on our behalf.  You don't know who we are and your policies show that.

We see you for who you are and we will remember.  

I have a debt to pay, and I've started to pay it. I'm divesting from my ALEC related corporate accounts.  I'm helping to register family members to vote- including my niece who turned 18, this spring.  Guess what is driving her desire to vote and have a voice,  along with all of her friends who've turned 18 this year?  

I'm going to give more of my time to registering other voters.  I'm going to give whatever money I have to give to help groups who are helping to pull back your mask,  and make clear the contempt you have for our children.

Originally posted to Denni on Mon Jul 15, 2013 at 06:54 AM PDT.

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  •  Tip Jar (17+ / 0-)

    Not only is another world possible, she is on her way. On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing. Arundhati Roy

    by Denni on Mon Jul 15, 2013 at 06:54:43 AM PDT

  •  They're not concerned; it's a distraction; I (2+ / 0-)
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    Ignore them. They always lie.

    nosotros no somos estúpidos

    by a2nite on Mon Jul 15, 2013 at 07:03:57 AM PDT

  •  The folksy cons who anguish over the lack of (3+ / 0-)
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    hnichols, gramofsam1, Tonedevil

    caring over the black on black violence, probably overlap quite a bit the group that so desperately is bothered that black folks can say the n-word with impunity and they themselves cannot.

    Ayn is the bane! Take the Antidote To Ayn Rand and call your doctor in the morning: You have health insurance now! @floydbluealdus1

    by Floyd Blue on Mon Jul 15, 2013 at 07:38:49 AM PDT

    •  I've actually seen white liberals say this too (3+ / 0-)
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      We are a heavily segregated society, at least in terms of where we live (and where we go to church, for those who do). As such, a lot of white people rarely encounter black people outside of work or going to and from home.

      And since the media pretty much never covers all of the work the black communities experiencing high levels of violence have been doing, and the media heavily covers black people organizing over white on black crime, then it appears to a lot of white people as if black people don't care about black on black crime.

      But as you said, if they just did a quick google search, they'd see.

      Time is of no account with great thoughts, which are as fresh to-day as when they first passed through their authors' minds ages ago. - Samuel Smiles

      by moviemeister76 on Mon Jul 15, 2013 at 07:50:24 AM PDT

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      •  I just did that google search (2+ / 0-)
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        moviemeister76, jbsoul

        and copied a bunch of links. My 14 year old grandson is bi-racial, and one of his "friends" on Facebook just posted the zombie lie about "where is the outrage about black on black crime, and why doesn't Al Sharpton ever talk about that?"

        The problem was how to give him the ammunition- he knows his Mom monitors his Facebook stuff but doesn't want us in his business too much. So- ironically, and sadly, I was able to bring it up to him after a couple of similarly clueless bullshit comments were posted right here on dailykos this morning.

        •  Heh yeah (1+ / 0-)
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          The meme that won't die on this site that the Right is Racist does tend to erase the problems we have with white liberals. I see the same thing with white folks saying that the Zimmerman verdict is just an indication that the South or Florida hasn't changed, which erases all the problems going on outside the South.

          I feel bad that that young man has to deal with that bs from social media, but at least he has folks at his back ready to discreetly arm him with facts.

          Time is of no account with great thoughts, which are as fresh to-day as when they first passed through their authors' minds ages ago. - Samuel Smiles

          by moviemeister76 on Mon Jul 15, 2013 at 10:20:52 AM PDT

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  •  Then (3+ / 0-)
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    hnichols, Tonedevil, mungley

    A black person can kill a white with impunity? Since there is so much white on white violence as well?


    Un pour tous et tous pour un aka United we stand

    by livebyChocolate on Mon Jul 15, 2013 at 08:08:13 AM PDT

  •  The stupid argument in a nut shell , (2+ / 0-)
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    Tonedevil, mungley

    since blacks kill blacks ,
    whats the big deal when a white kills a black .

    The standard you walk past is the standard you accept. David Morrison

    by indycam on Mon Jul 15, 2013 at 09:10:57 AM PDT

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