I had lunch today with my girlfriend and her (female) best friend.
I wish I hadn't, because now whatever I do is wrong.
Why?
While having genial conversation Africa came up as a topic. Best Friend has spent time there, as have I. Sub-Saharan Africa is my favorite place to visit. So we were twitting away and then she dropped the bomb. And yes, it bombed.
Don't you think Africans are stupid?
I was shocked. I can only remember one time that I know my jaw actually dropped - when the FBI guy said there was evidence I was a terrorist - so I don't think my jaw literally dropped.
I lamely said, "No." I know. Not nearly good enough.
But my shock and disgust shone through enough that Best Friend quickly said:
I mean they are stubborn, right?
No, that wasn't what she meant. Cowardly me, Love-my-Girlfriend whose Best Friend truly looks out for her-me said "Maybe."
What does my girlfriend think? Well, she doesn't agree with Best Friend, but she doesn't want to break with her either.
Even if my girlfriend didn't need surgery three weeks from now, I would be anxious. But she does and I will have to leave a few days later.
Ok, on a misery scale of one to ten I'm weightless... but these things weigh on me.
Please, Kossacks, I need some advice before making whatever nasty choice.