The victim blaming and shaming by Republicans and a president of the United States—against a brave woman who came forward and accused Supreme Court Justice nominee Brett Kavanaugh of sexual abuse, is incredible. It’s no surprise #WhyIDidn’tReport is trending #1 in the nation. Here is what Trump tweeted Friday morning.
There are thousands of women and men around the country giving their reasons for not reporting their rapes/sexual abuse. More will be posted. If you choose, please add yours in the comments. Every single person who tells their story publicly or privately is beyond brave.
Warning: the tweets, posts and comments may be emotionally triggering for victims of sexual abuse.)
It goes on and on and on. Beyond strong—beyond brave.
Thankfully, there is help. And with therapy and support many victims survive and learn to thrive—but they never forget. The more victims that speak out, the more chances we can ending this epidemic.
If you or someone you know is, or has ever been, a victim of rape/sexual assault, you are not alone and it’s never too late to seek help. You can find free support via the National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800.656.HOPE (4673) and/or by visiting the Rape, Abuse Incest National Network/online.RAINN.org. If you are in immediate danger, please call 911.
You do not have to live with guilt and shame. If you can hold on to one thing, remember this: It. Is. Not. Your. Fault. It never was your fault. It will never be your fault.