I did my dirt back in the day but in appropriate settings.
Sorry not sorry.
When I was a musician, I used to hang out in a few of the fantastic underground clubs in and around the Atlant area. One hot fetish/Goth night spot I frequented was called The Chamber. On the weekends, NIN played loudly over thumping speakers, and people were, shall we say, wild and free—but it was the proper forum for such grown-up debauchery.
And let me tell you—some of the drag queens and crossdressers I met there would never have blown vape smoke on a pregnant woman or performed adult acts in front of kids. There was also very little shame in anyone’s game—if asked, they would tell you what kind of kink they were into—and they also respected boundaries.