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Wed Jan 16, 2013 at 06:54 AM PST

WTF? They can do that?

by EclecticCrafter

Mr. EclecticCrafter & I are refinancing a mortgage.  Recently we received the following email from some lackey at the Title company

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I was born overseas to American missionaries.  My father lost his faith by the time I was two and my parents returned to the US for grad school.

My father, his brother, and their father raped and sexually abused all of the girls of my generation.  My father saw it as his mission to train me in my job as a woman – to sexually please men.  I could go into details about the abuse, but that’s not the point of this post. (I spent my early 20s in intense therapy, up to three times a week, and I can say that PTSD is not a life-sentence.)  At age 14 my father impregnated me.  I can’t tell you whether it was “forcible rape” or not because while I fought many times, sometimes I just lay there crying.  Sometimes I was distracting him from my sister, who seemed more fragile than I; sometimes his threat to ruin something I loved was credible enough that I didn't fight; sometimes I was in too much pain to fight.  But it was always rape.

Perhaps my “magical lady parts” hadn’t yet learned the whole “shut it down” trick; perhaps I lived in the real world and not in fantasy land.  But in no world and at no time was that fetus a gift from God.

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Thu Oct 11, 2012 at 09:49 AM PDT

Privilege Workshop Development

by EclecticCrafter

I’m giving a workshop on “Privilege in Our Society” this weekend at a UU retreat.  I mentioned this several months ago and asked for help.  Great folks here lead me to Tim Wise, Facing Race, The back-pack metaphor, the computer game metaphor, and much wonderful stuff.  Thanks.

Please keep reading for a new opportunity to help.

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Mon Feb 14, 2011 at 07:19 PM PST

Planning can save lives

by EclecticCrafter

I recently asked my daughter how a friend of hers was doing and the reply was, "He's still not comfortable around knives, but other than that he's okay." I asked if he was suicidal and she replied, "no just images." I really want to call her friend and talk to him about strategies for dealing with suicidal ideation and suicidality, but he would not welcome the call.

I've dealt with both in my life and with all the various suicides in the news and the diaries about suicides here on dkos, I thought I'd share some strategies. Maybe my daughter can share the link with her friend and maybe it will help someone here.

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