Born and raised in Pennsylvania, now living in New York, I visited Florida once in my life a decade ago. I'm the median American statistically. White. Straight. Male. Upper 30’s. 40k a year income.
One of my very best friends was from High School, I became roommates with him at 17. Our group, and he himself, joked about him being gay then. We didn't actually know he was gay then. Or at least I didn't.
I don't particularly feel bad for my conduct. It wasn't mean spirited, ever. It was the 90’s, I was young and “gay” was an insult like “dork”.
Life is complicated. Stuff I said then could borderline be considered a hate speech. But there was never any hate in my heart.
He lives in Orlando now. I found out about what happened from Facebook, and his posting a deep and thoughtful short comment on it. Then his check into the “safe” thing Facebook set up.
We tend to look at a subject, and take it a position on it and argue it to the extreme.
Life is fucking complicated.
There is a disappropriate number of attacks on America and our friends by people of or with connections to the Islamic faith. And it is not a coincidence.
It should be okay to say the above. It's fact. Life is complicated man.
Most Muslims condemn this. And we can point to times in history where it has been another religion. The Crusades killed more.
It feels like deflection. And it fucking sucks.