Really, there are so few openly gay people in the truly red states, it doesn't seem like gay marriage should be such a big issue in these places. The way the Republicans talk about it, it'd seem like they couldn't walk outside without getting caught up in a rough bout of hardcore man on man.
In all honesty, the real flammers live in California and on the Eastern Seaboard. So get over it. We can't destory your marriages and molest your boyscouts if we live 1000 miles away.