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Why a conversation on equality for all Americans is necessary.

Newsweek’s cover story declaring President Barack Obama “The First Gay President” has created quite a firestorm of responses, good and ugly, from various corners. To be frank, I was shocked when Mr. Obama told Robin Roberts on ABC’s “Good Morning America” that he supported gay marriage. His administration had at first tried to backslide from Vice President Joseph Biden’s comments saying the same days before, possibly because Mr. Biden has a history of speaking very bluntly, even if it causes concern to those around him.

But given that North Carolina just voted “No” in an overwhelming manner to Amendment One, which blocks—among other things—gay marriage and the basic rights of couples in same-sex relationships, President Obama's response came as a complete surprise to many of us who support marriage equality for all Americans, regardless of sexual orientation. Whatever some may think of Republican presidential candidate Mitt Romney, this is going to be a very close election, if for no other reason than many do not like Barack Obama, and have come to blame him for everything wrong with America. To the sheer delight of conservatives and evangelicals, Barack Obama endorsing marriage equality can be added to the bucket list of discontent.

For sure, Mr. Obama becoming the first American president to publicly support gay marriage is not only historical, but is also politically risky business. Yet I am glad he and his administration finally had the guts to do so. As an African American I know well what my ancestors had to endure to achieve fundamental civil rights in our country. I am also clear that the Civil Rights Movement was not just for Black people, but for any American marginalized because of their race, culture, gender, class, education (or lack thereof), religion, disability, and, yes, their sexual orientation. Democracy means every person has the right to live as they choose, without interference, as long as it is not harming or hurting others.

I did not always think this way but years of traveling America as an organizer, speaker, and writer broadened my mind and soul to see the humanity in people. That, coupled with the many lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals I’ve met in my work, including many who’ve been the victims of the most horrific forms of violence and brutality simply because of their choice of lovers, is what made me state a few years back that I support gay rights, including gay marriage, 100 percent.

Now of course this runs counter to my upbringing as a Christian, and to what is often preached in Black churches. For the record, I do not think that Black Americans are any more socially conservative or homophobic than other communities in our nation. But what I do feel is that given our long history of having to confront inequality and social injustice in America, many Blacks are resentful of others trying to link their (social) struggles to ours. As one preacher once said to me, “You don’t have to tell anyone you are gay, But we cannot just erase our skin color.”

True enough, but that does not mean, irrespective of who you are, that you cannot and should not have the capacity to feel the suffering of those different than you in some way, especially if you are a part of a group that has experienced a long history of social inequality. For sure that speaks to your greater humanity if you can do that, at any time, and in relation to any community. But, sadly, some of us faith-based folks of all races and religions walk away from our humanity, decide we are God, and cite holy texts to condemn lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender folks to hell, even as some of them are right in our midst, in our spiritual spaces, in our workplaces, in our neighborhoods, and in our families. People's inability to see themselves in one another explains the heated and endless discussions around President Obama’s coming out, so to speak, last week, and how nervous it has made some of his staunchest supporters. The social networks are abuzz, lectures are being dedicated to the topic, and there have been plenty of private meetings and conference calls to talk about this.

And then came the overly sensationalistic Newsweek cover. Clearly the mag is in the business to sell copies, particularly in an era when most of us are more likely to get our information from the internet instead of a magazine or newspaper. But when you read Andrew Sullivan’s essay you realize the cover is saying one thing while his piece says something entirely different. The cover suggests that Barack Obama is as much the first gay American president as it was suggested, years back, that Bill Clinton was America’s first Black president. And both notions are loaded with untruths and sheer naïveté, and do a great disservice to those respective communities. Simply put, Bill Clinton is not Black and Barack Obama is not gay.

What they both happen to be are political leaders who have had the courage, in different ways, to speak certain truths into existence that we hope will change the direction of ideas and attitudes in America. Indeed, as the firestorm and homophobic outbursts continue around President Obama’s support of gay marriage, the Washington Post just ran an editorial page article about Tracy Thorne-Begland, a top Virginia prosecutor overqualified to be a judge, who was summarily rejected by state Republicans to be one, in the wee hours of the morning the other day, because he also happens to be openly gay. Although Mr. Thorne-Begland had the support of the Republican governor, each and every Republican in Virginia’s House voted against him.

This kind of ignorance and hatred, be it certain White Republicans or certain Black preachers, to block people from working, from living, from loving, simply because of who they are, is not acceptable. Let us hope President Obama’s bold step will lead to a different kind of discussion about democracy, about equality, about our humanity, and our ability to accept people for who they are.

Kevin Powell is an activist, public speaker, and author or editor of 11 books, including his newest title, “Barack Obama, Ronald Reagan, and The Ghost of Dr. King: Blogs and Essays,” which can be ordered at Email him at, or follow him on twitter at kevin_powell

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    this letter of interest.

    It's written by a retired Baptist minister.

    I have been asked if Louise is real. Yes, and this was a real letter to her. Shortly after I had gone to my first pastorate out of the seminary, Louise invited my wife, Anna Marie, and me to have Sunday dinner with her family. That was over 50 years ago, and she has been one of our dearest friends ever since.

    The last time we visited her she told me what I have related in the first sentence of this Letter.

    Your heavy-hearted words to Anna Marie and me the last time we saw you will always burn in our hearts: "My brother hates God because God made him gay, and he knows he is going to hell, and I do, too, for that is what the Bible says."
    At that time I really knew nothing about homosexuality. I did have some suppositions-- quite negative--and had never thought I needed to study it. But her words made me want to know as much as I could learn about it.

    When I began reading I soon realized things about myself I now deplore: I was ignorant of the many facts about homosexuality and what the Bible says about it. Without facts I had pre-judged it; I was prejudiced. With little thought I had read into the Bible what I presumed it ought to say instead of reading out of it what it does say. My idea of not needing to study the subject was pure anti-intellectualism. I am now grateful to God that He led me to study.

    I read some two score books, most by eminent sociologists, psychologists and theologians. Then I wrote this letter to Louise, reflecting what I now have come to believe is the truth about homosexuality, what the Bible says and what God wants us to think and do about it.

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