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I saw this story on the NBC Nightly News tonight and it's getting a lot of attention all over the Internet. This report is from WKBT News 8 in La Crosse, Wisconsin, the station Jennifer Livingston works at:

In a frank editorial, she acknowledged that she is overweight, but she knows that from looking in the mirror, not because she received a letter to bringing it to her attention -- and pointed out her character is made up of a lot more than the numbers she sees on the scale. She also encouraged the community to rise above people who bully others and teach their children "to be kind, not critical, and we need to do that by example."

Jennifer Livingston responds to viewer letter about her weight

Jennifer Livingston's commentary this morning is worth watching and sharing. If you haven't seen this video yet, watch!

I want to take a moment to address a situation that has become a talking point in this community over the past weekend especially on Facebook that centers around me.

On Friday I received the following email from a Lacross man with the subject line “Community Responsibility” and it reads as follows

Hi Jennifer,

It’s unusual that I see your morning show, but I did so for a very short time today. I was surprised indeed to witness that your physical condition hasn’t improved for many years. Surely you don’t consider yourself a suitable example for this community’s young people, girls in particular. Obesity is one of the worst choices a person can make and one of the most dangerous habits to maintain. I leave you this note hoping that you’ll reconsider your responsibility as a local public personality to present and promote a healthy lifestyle.

Now, those of us in the media, we get a healthy dose of critiques from our viewers throughout the year and we realize that it comes with having a job in the public eye. But this email was more than that. While I tried my best to laugh off this very hurtful attack on my appearance, my colleagues could not do the same, especially my husband our Six and Ten anchor Mike Thompson. Mike posted this email on his WKBT Facebook page and what happened next has been truly inspiring. Hundreds and hundreds of people have taken the time out of their day to not only lift my spirits but take a stand that attacks like this are not okay and we’re going to have more on that in just a second, but first, the truth is, I am overweight. You could call me fat and yes, even obese, on a doctor’s chart. But to the person who wrote me that letter, do you think I don’t know that? That your cruel words are pointing out something that I don’t see? You don’t know me. You are not a friend of mine. You are not a part of my family and you have admitted that you don’t watch this show so you know nothing about me but what you see on the outside and I am much more than a number on a scale.

And here is where I want all of us to learn something from this. If you didn’t already know, October is National Anti-Bullying Month, and this is a problem that is growing every day in our schools and on the Internet. It is a major issue in the lives of young people today and as the mother of three young girls it scares me to death. Now I am a grown woman and luckily for me I have a very thick skin, literally as that email pointed out, and otherwise. And that man’s words mean nothing to me. But what really angers me is there are children who don’t know better. Who get emails, as critical as the one I received or in many cases even worse, each and every day. The Internet has become a weapon. Our schools have become a battleground. And this behavior is learned. It is passed down from people like the man who wrote me that email.

If you are at home and you are talking about the fat news lady, guess what. Your children are probably going to go to school and call someone fat. We need to teach our children to be kind, not critical, and we need to do that by example. So many of you have come to my defense over the past four days, I am literally overwhelmed by your words.

To my colleagues and my friends from today and years ago, my family, my amazing husband, and so many of you out there that I will probably never have the opportunity to meet, I will never be able to thank you enough for your words of support, and for taking a stand against this bully. We are better than that email. We are better than the bullies that would try to take us down. And I leave you with this. To all of the children out there who feel lost, who are struggling with your weight, with the color of your skin, your sexual preference, your disability, even the acne on your face. Listen to me right now. Do not let your self-worth be defined by bullies. Learn from my experience that the cruel words of one are nothing compared to the shouts of many.

We’ll be right back.

Here's the report on the story from NBC Nightly News tonight.

Here's the link to the NBC website for those who can't watch on iPad and other devices.

Originally posted to hungrycoyote on Tue Oct 02, 2012 at 04:53 PM PDT.

Also republished by Badger State Progressive.

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