I've been well and ill, happy and sad, "rich" and poor but I've never been a woman.
I'm not being post-neo-snarky. I feel my being as a man, body and soul, as "of me" and have difficulty holding that at arms length to consider it abstractly. I can do that with my thoughts and feelings because they feel like they're "on" or "in" or "around" me and can be questioned and reinformed.
Guilessly, if anyone who's not cisgender would like to talk about your "of you" sense of being as transgender, I'd appreciate being more informed.