I find this statement by Erik von Brunn, the son of murderer white supremacist, James von Brunn, both moving and comforting. It's eloquent and noble.
Erik von Brunn sent the following statement to ABC News.
Statement by Erik von Brunn
Son of Accused Holocaust Shooter Issues Statement Concerning His Father
June 12, 2009
My father's beliefs have been a constant source of verbal and mental abuse my family has had to suffer with for many years. His views consumed him, and in doing so, not only destroyed his life, but destroyed our family and ruined our lives as well.
For a long time, I believed this was our family's cross to bear. Now, it is not only my families lives that are in shambles, but those who were directly affected by his actions; especially the family of Mr. Johns, who bravely sacrificed his life to stop my father.
I cannot express enough how deeply sorry I am it was Mr. Johns, and not my father who lost their life yesterday [Wednesday]. It was unjustified and unfair that he died, and while my condolences could never begin to offer appeasement, they, along with my remorse is all I have to give.
While my father had every right to believe what he did, by imposing those beliefs on others he robbed them of their free will. His actions have taken opportunities away from many people and forced decisions not expected, nor warranted, to be made that otherwise would not have been necessary.
For the extremists who believe my father is a hero: it is imperative you understand what he did was an act of cowardice. To physically force your beliefs onto others with violence is not brave, but bullying. Doing so only serves to prove how weak those beliefs are. It is simply desperation, reminiscent of a temper tantrum when a child cannot get his way. Violence is a cop out; an easy answer for an ignorant problem.
His actions have undermined your "movement," and strengthened the resistance against your cause. He should not be remembered as a brave man or a hero, but a coward unable to come to grips with the fact he threw his and his families lives away for an ideology that fostered sadness and anguish.
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James von Brunn was able to play out his hateful philosophy by murdering Stephen Johns and violating the Holocaust Museum, but he wasn't able to pass his hate on to his son. I wish Erik von Brunn healing from the trauma his father inflicted on him.
UPDATE: Thanks for the recs. I think they reflect our need to find something redemptive out of very dark events. We need silver linings to make the unbearable a little lighter.