First and foremost....I'm sicker than a fucking stuff pig talking about politics...and besides, summer is almost amongst us...Who in their fucking right minds drinks "Tea" in the summer?
Now on to a more juicier topic...too me that is:
I am a avid fan of Tori and Dean "Home Sweet Home" reality show on Oxygen and I am so in awe of how smart and cute Liam and Stella are. However after viewing the "road trip" I am angry at her so-called three "queens" of a friends. They didn't have to abandoned her like that. But it's hard as hell to be in a closed van for most of a trip. But still they are always in the McDermott's house when the show airs...Even a small child could had seen that the three couldn't wait to get in that cabby-van to start mouthing off badly about Tori and Dean relationship....whom may I add....are just another typical family trying to adjust to having two toddlers but what's even worse! They both have public careers! Tori needs more females around her. I love gay guys but they will flip on their female freinds in a hot potatoe second!
So my advice to Tori is to get her ipod out and listen to Alicia Keys "I am a superwoman" and don't let the bark of your husband shy you away from speaking what's on your mind. My heart ached when I saw how all of them cowarded you into doing the decoration their way....And what's his name takes you in a room just to tell you that you do have a way of over talking Dean....What did you expect from a man whom probably wish he had a man like Dean!...Don't be fooled by those gay-guys They're cool but they are still bitches! And as far as your husband goes....no one is perfect and Dean reminds me of "my man" and you reminds me of "me"...FIND YOUR VOICE AND LET YOUR HUSBAND HEAR IT!...
Dean is a man's man!...meaning he doesn't react too well to the "emotional thingy". He loves the fact that you are compassionate but at the same time it irritates him. I learned this....I love my man, we been together for 13 years and still we are learning each other. Your journey is just beginning my friend and no two relationships are alike....However, until you let go of the fact that your Mom is not coming over anytime soon, you wouldn't be able to live in the present. Sometimes I get the feeling that you hope your Mom is watching the show and would say, That's my daughter and my grand-babies and I am going to see them....Tori I wish that too! but, let's get this rude awakening....It ain't gonna happen anytime soon!
I lost one of my best friend's because she became an emotional insufferable unbearable woman...Her Father committed incestous acts with her, and her Mother blamed her....My friend was 13 then....now she's 51 and I just couldn't take her insufferable crying anymore...Don't get me wrong I cried with her all night, quit a few times, but after awhile I tried cheering her up and noticed that she got fixated on that danm "gloom" and "doom" negativity shit that happen 40 years ago. When I suggested talking to a professional about it, she was like Oh no! but when we go shopping or over each other houses that's all she talked about....One day I had just about enough of it and told her we couldn't talk about her Mom anymore because....My mother died and I just couldn't sit and talk ill about someone else's Mom, while aching and missing mines! Once I asked her why she didn't feel this "ire" towards her Father? You know what she said...He wasn't that bad!....Knock me over with a feather...still feeling struck by lightening by her last response...I had to ask "How was it so much of your Mother's fault?"...she said...Her Father over the years became more kinder too her! I was done with her after that!
See Mothers and daughters are a unique situation that could go either way...very very good or, very very bad!
BUT GOD HAS GIVEN YOU A SECOND CHANCE WITH THAT SWEET ANGEL NAME STELLA.....WHOM LOVE HER SOME TORI....EVERONE SEES THAT LIAM LOVES BEING UNDER HIS DAD AND STELLA LOVES BEEN IN HER MOM'S ARMS!
GIRLFRIEND....I AM HAPPY FOR YOU...PLEASE SIT BACK AND COUNT YOUR BLESSING....GOD HAS BEEN GOOD TO YOU AND HE HASN'T GIVING YOU MORE THAN YOU CAN HANDLE...EVEN IF DEAN IS A HANDFUL....I KNOW HE IS A LOVING FATHER...IT'S YOUR JOB ALONE TO MAKE HIM A LOVING HUSBAND....AND REFUSING TO HAVE SEX IS NOT A GOOD START...GET FREAKY GIRL!!! KEEP THAT HUNK OF A MAN YOU GOT....AND PLEASE JUST GAIN 10 POUNDS
GOD MADE IT POSSIBLE....YOU CAN'T HAVE ALL THINGS ALL THE TIMES...SO BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE
LOVE AND PEACE OUT
AN AVID FAN