I'm sorry I'm pointing you to NRO. This is in the interest of "knowing the enemy".
John Eastman video, National Organization for Marriage, speaking at CPAC, about 8 min
This is a well-done rabble-rousing speech in the battle about "one man one women" made rational--from the point of view of a certain class of people. Take a look about how they see us, and why they thing we're crazy.
In essence, it's an entitlement narrative on why gay marriage is bad for human husbandry and loss of control over the livestock. It's a disgusting and illuminating rant about how marriage must be saved, because traditional marriage, "for the benefit of society", induces a generation to make sacrifices for the next generation. If marriage is about "the relationship that matters most between adults", John Eastman rants about this as the new definition of marriage, it's "all about the adults, it's not about the kids".
Gay Marriage is bad, bad, bad because it will change the definition of "marriage" to only be about adult sexual choice, and not about the children, and self-sacrifice. Also in this rant, he tells what he thinks is the connection between abortion & gay rights, and referring to lack of marriage causing our fiscal problems (no mention of wars or banksters).
If we don't have traditional marriage, we're not protecting the kids (according to John Eastman) -- and other hogwash that's disproven every time that single parents and gay families sacrifice for their kids. Or other people's kids. ("It takes a village to raise a child", anyone?) So it isn't about protecting the kids (& all the other falsehoods he glibbly delivers), it's about getting back to the status quo they want, that they feel they are entitled to have, where the 1% lives off the sacrifice of the 95%. (The in-between ballpark 4% are the engineers, servants, and hangers-on.)
This statement is the rant of the factory farmer getting mad at the livestock trying to organize. Because behind all the hand waving, the purpose of us livestock (according to people John Eastman) is to produce more livestock, more cannon- and prison-fodder, & wage slaves so the people who count (on the top) get to harvest us.
So all the gay families with children, and het families supporting gay families and the kids all saying it's All Right -- none of it counts because it's a statement of INDIVIDUALITY, not RESPONSIBILITY TO THE OWNERS.
Gag.