How should we approach each other in the hopeful pursuit of a sexual partner? And this isn’t just for men and women anymore what with the same sex coupling and the trans group all coming of age and out of their proverbial respective closets. It probably comes down to how much sincerity does there need to be or can players still play some demanding that everyone is responsible for their own decisions and safety and so on.
Like most things there needs to be a balance, people not wanting fast sex should not be in a place full of people looking for fast sex hook ups regardless of orientation. And if they are in there then they should expect to be lied to, though, often that is exactly what they want, some people want sex but don’t want to look or act like it preferring to appear to be talked into it.
But if you are looking for that life partner, that for better or worse, in sickness and health thing, that stand by your man through thick and thin and whatever life throws your way thing, then how should you approach that? Who knows, there is no common denominator story, all couples meet the way they meet and where ever and including now, online, they get to know each other and somehow decide to play for keeps.
So what is sexual sanity anyway? I don’t know, I just made it up, thought of it while eating in the mall food court while watching all kinds of people and couples walk by. Old marrieds, family units, girls holding hands, some men dressed like women and some women dressed like men, you know, the hair and the attitude, and lots of people walking alone and looking at other people, sort of like I was I suppose. Maybe some were calculating and wondering if they should make a move, that’s never gonna change, and something else that will never change, the one you think you want will inevitably not want anything to do with you probably, though you want to give it a good shot but stop short of being a stalker or predator which we might agree is not sexual sanity.
I wish I could have helped you understand your sexuality better, you’ll just have to do the best you can, and yet, it may be best of all to just sit home alone and watch TV or read a good book, or maybe even write a DK article.