Since the topics of marriage and gays have been so popular of late I was curious.
For the sake of avoiding massive fragmentation of options and clarity I'm basing the questions on the following definitions.
Male by genetics - has atleast 1 Y chromosome regardless of chromosome count or expression.
Female by genetics - has no Y chromosomes regardless of chromosome count or expression.
Traditional man - male by genetics, genitals, and appearance without the help of surgical or hormonal or other outside aids.
Traditional woman - female by genetics, genitals, and appearance without the help of surgical or hormonal or other outside aids.
Traditional marriage - 1 traditional man married to 1 traditional woman, a marriage that would not be contested in any court in this country.
When I refer to an individual as non traditional they don't fit either the traditional man or traditional woman as defined above either by genetics or by requested physical modifications.
Outside of "traditional" definitions go by your definition of your sex and your partner's(s') sex and your relationship.
If you are already married but would prefer one of the other options vote for the one you would prefer not the one you are in.
Disclaimer - No insult to anyone is meant by the above definitions.