in his heartfelt post on marriage equality. It is titled Obama Lets Go of Fear and it is powerful.
Let me just give a few snips.
So let me simply say: I think of all the gay kids out there who now know they have their president on their side. I think of Maurice Sendak, who just died, whose decades-long relationship was never given the respect it deserved. I think of the centuries and decades in which gay people found it impossible to believe that marriage and inclusion in their own families was possible for them, so crushed were they by the weight of social and religious pressure. I think of all those in the plague years shut out of hospital rooms, thrown out of apartments, written out of wills, treated like human garbage because they loved another human being. I think of Frank Kameny. I think of the gay parents who now feel their president is behind their sacrifices and their love for their children.
Today Obama did more than make a logical step. He let go of fear. He is clearly prepared to let the political chips fall as they may. That's why we elected him. That's the change we believed in. The contrast with a candidate who wants to abolish all rights for gay couples by amending the federal constitution, and who has donated to organizations that seek to "cure" gays, who bowed to pressure from bigots who demanded the head of a spokesman on foreign policy solely because he was gay: how much starker can it get?
Sullivan believes that this will politically help the President. I agree.
As it happens I have been discussing this subject with my two non-AP classes. Even those who oppose gay "marriage" seem to support at least civil unions.
As the Republicans double down on hate, it will strike young people powerfully.
But enough of what I think.
Go read the Sullivan. You will be glad you did.