His grandmother is the only relative he can trust. He has been living with her longer than we have been here in the PNW. He is the best friend of my oldest at home, I feel like a father at times to him.
Today he needs our thoughts an prayers... His grandmother needs healing prayers...
Last night, she had a stroke. He was home at the time when it happened (he is a manager of a small retail store). It took about 20 minutes to figure out what was going on, as at that time she was responsive. The paramedics arrived and got her to the hospital.
Today, she doesn't really recognize him, I don't know if she is speaking, but is able to control her limbs and will follow some/most commands to move.
He is attempting to find most of the important papers around the house/safe deposit box. But this is the first time he is having to take charge. The most important paper he is looking for is the POA she did a few years back that assigns things to him.
This evening my partner and I have a meeting with him in our home, to discuss what is going on, help him plan for what may be next.