I'll keep this short. A bar in Spokane is selling a drink called "Date Grape Kool-Aid." Feminists in Spokane have protested, both online and in person, and the bar has not yet changed the name.
Please add your name to those rejecting this odious example of rape culture via a petition at the Petition Site. Please speak out against rape "jokes" that mock the pain inflicted by men's violence.
I love puns, partly because they are a form of humor in which we don't encourage laughter at anyone else's expense, and don't make light of anyone else's pain. This pun turns this advantage inside out - it encourages laughter at the expense of rape survivors who experience the pain inflicted by people, primarily men, who rape.
As a man, I believe it is my responsibility to confront my own and other men's sexism, and work to end men's violence, through groups such as Men Can Stop Rape. (I was a co-founder of Men Against Rape, now called Men Can Stop Rape). I hope you'll add your voice to those rejecting rape culture in all its forms.