We found out just before X-MASS the doctors had found a mass on her pancreas .The doctors did a biopsy and cat scan and confirmed stage 4 pancreatic cancer that has spread to her liver .They told us she has maybe 6 months .Im not sure why im writting this other than I have been apart of D-Kos for along time and have no other place to go to talk about it . We have been married for 25 years and she is my best friend and really my only friend.I can't imagine life with out her and can't imagine moving on with a new life at age 48 .Our days now are spent now in pain or going through procedures that will just cause more pain and with no hope of remission I have a hard time watching her do chemo and other things.If any of you have gone through a similar situation please give me your insights about end of life care for loved ones I would greatly welcome any imput